Re: Should I feel insecure?
What warning? If by warning you meant “divorce”. Then yes, I already brought it up. I said in a polite way that if you can’t handle your family and your wife then it’s better to marry someone who your family chooses and who can adjust to them. He said he loves me and all that crap first then when the argument proceeded, he said ok that’s fine, you can leave if you want, I can’t say anything to my parents, I can leave you for them. He tells me “why can’t you see I’m on your side” Like how am I supposed to see he’s on my side after all this he lets me go through and lets me get humiliated. Before he used to say if ammi says something wrong to you just tell her politely that ammi this is not right. After I did it a couple of times POLITELY, and MIL created drama, he now tells me to ignore everything and not say anything!
And yes, I have talked to him many times. Laid out everything to him. Cried to him. He just hugs me and tells me "everything will be ok"......and next day again same sh*t, another day! I'm just drained emotionally, I feel like I'm getting played with my emotions. He says something and does something.