You’re right! The thing is though, he’s fine with me otherwise beside this whole family thing. He shows me he loves me. Sometimes he brings me things and hides them so his mom wont see and ask, so he does know that she’ll create hell or ask for something similar or more expensive! The next big thing is that the “creating the boundaries” part is the hardest part for him. It’s not just me who he doesn’t stand up for, he’s the same with himself too. Even if they say something wrong to him, he doesn’t say anything. If you’ve read a few posts of mine before, you’d see how his parents talk to him quoting Quran and stuff telling him he’ll basically go to hell and what jawab he’ll give to Allah and stuff like that. They’ve done that since childhood but apparently out of all the siblings it stuck most with my husband! His personality outside is not like that. Once a cousin of his said something about me looking fat and he put her in her place…and a couple of times his other cousin too and ONCE his sister but never his parents. He says he just can’t say anything to his parents no
matter what they do with me or him. Im just afraid to see if he’ll ever stand up for his kids IF my in-laws treat them the same.