Well, i have been talking online to a girl for a year and half back, We met online by chance. She is a Persian girl, we never met eachother face to face but we love eachother, In the beginning she start telling me that we have to be apart one day sooner or later, But it was me who Never accept this statment, Whenever she tried to say that we have to be apart, i kept ignoring it. Now my wedding is about to done in a couple of months & i m thinking that it would be cheating on my wife if i would talk to her in the future.
What should i do now? I m really upset about all that.
Your immediate & sincere answer would be greatly appericiated!
Thanks
wow…i’m been keeping up with your threads Andy and you’ve got quite a life going for you there! You have more interesting stuff happening to you than I would in 10 years!
anyways…in regards to this matter…obviously common sense say end it and look towards the future! If only the heart could think as rationally as the brain eh?
Well Thanks for your reply!
Now i m wondering how to end this relationship ?
I should tell her straigt farwardly that i can't talk to you anymore or what ?
tell her the truth. tell her that i am going to get married, and that i can't continue this relationship, without risking my faithfulness to my future wife, to whom i am completed devoted.
she'll be mad and sad...but glad u told t he truth :D
she'll be mad and sad...but glad u told t he truth :D
Well it could be intersting for you all that she already knows that i m getting married soon. Once i have broken up with her & it didn't work, Again we start talking. You know what i think, In this age we all need companianship of sum1 who we could share our everything who we could spend some time ..... and so on. Actually as i have posted b4 that i don't talk to my fiance that much....i tried to talk to her but she is very shy....but here it will be differant topic. so better to stop talking about it. let me know how to stop this ongoing situation... ?????
Think about your fiancee. Are you really respecting her rights with what you are doing? Do you really feel like you can continue this behavior with a good conscience? Can you stand infront of Allah and tell Him that what you are doing is right? Can you stand infront of her parents and openly declare that what you are doing is absolutely moral?
If you cant...then you know what to do, you dont need us to tell you.
If I found out that my fiancee was doing this behavior, he would no longer be my fiancee.
Well, first of all are you talking about breaking up with this online girl or your fiance'? Don't say its obvious. From reading your posts, nothing is really obvious from you.
Oh my god ur engaged for crying out loud! U know what is the right thing to do. U shouldnt have got engaged if u love this other person. End it. Ur current fiance really doesnt need this kind of baggage to deal with. Its not fair on her.
