Should i break up or just keep going ?

[andy936]

Re: Should i break up or just keep going ?

@Munni

Think about your fiancee. Are you really respecting her rights with what you are doing? Do you really feel like you can continue this behavior with a good conscience? Can you stand infront of Allah and tell Him that what you are doing is right? Can you stand infront of her parents and openly declare that what you are doing is absolutely moral?

If you cant...then you know what to do, you dont need us to tell you.

If I found out that my fiancee was doing this behavior, he would no longer be my fiancee.

Now i understand that all was doing it was wrong. Anyways thanks for your suggestion

[andy936]

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@lifeless

wait..does the persian girl know that ur getting marriedd????

yeah she knows that i m getting married .....

[andy936]

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@Man with a Plan

How do you know she is a woman?

Yeah i have talked to her on the fone ... & i have seen her on the webcam

[andy936]

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@Asif2000

Well, first of all are you talking about breaking up with this online girl or your fiance'? Don't say its obvious. From reading your posts, nothing is really obvious from you.

online girl

[Khumar]

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@andy936

Well it could be intersting for you all that she already knows that i m getting married soon. Once i have broken up with her & it didn't work, Again we start talking. You know what i think, In this age we all need companianship of sum1 who we could share our everything who we could spend some time ..... and so on. Actually as i have posted b4 that i don't talk to my fiance that much....i tried to talk to her but she is very shy....but here it will be differant topic. so better to stop talking about it. let me know how to stop this ongoing situation... ?????

as it might be clear from othe rpeople's responses here...you are doing a very, very bad thing indeed. don't disillusion yourself by saying that she is just a companion, a friend, and nothing more than that. because she isn't. why can't someone else be your companion, a friend? some one local, some friend or collegue. some one who isn't persian. or better yet...why can't that secret-sharer be a guy?

forget about her. think of your wife. if you are really eager to get married, like you say so, then this is just one of the many sacrifices and compromises you will have to make in the future.

[andy936]

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@Khumar

as it might be clear from othe rpeople's responses here...you are doing a very, very bad thing indeed. don't disillusion yourself by saying that she is just a companion, a friend, and nothing more than that. because she isn't. why can't someone else be your companion, a friend? some one local, some friend or collegue. some one who isn't persian. or better yet...why can't that secret-sharer be a guy?

forget about her. think of your wife. if you are really eager to get married, like you say so, then this is just one of the many sacrifices and compromises you will have to make in the future.

yeah well said, I m going to end this relationship. thanks for your reply

[alooch]

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well just to add on...remember that you are going to make a life-long commitment...and you dont want ur online relationship to hurt the REAL and more sacred relationship now do you...afer all...it was still online...and she will also come across many other people...Im glad you realized that you actually made a mistake and tht ur not as emotional about it anymore...your new wife deserves your full and utmost respect and attention...you cannot be fair to her if you continue your existing relationship....and it will definitely hurt her.
I personally would not like to find that out about my fiance or I would not want that to happen to my own sister...so thats how I think of it.
God Bless you bro,
Be brave,
and do the right thing!
cuz its either do it now...or it bugs u forever!

[andy936]

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Thx Alooch yeah it wouldn't be fair if i will continue this online story, As u said it was just online ... & she will also come across many other people.
Thx for your Encourgment
GOD BLESS YOU TOO

[SindSagar]

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@andy936

Well Thanks for your reply! Now i m wondering how to end this relationship ? I should tell her straigt farwardly that i can't talk to you anymore or what ?

**Hedging your bets Eh!, **

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**The certainty of uncertainty, Can be very confusing...:D **

[andy936]

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yeah:(

[khawateen]

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**andy… i feel for ure fiancee… tumharay lakshan koi kaafi achay nahi hain…

judging from the pm’s u keep sending me.. .. wanting friendship.. how you’ve read all my posts and threads… etc…

**

[hsap]

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come on andy786 !!! grow up !!! and start acting like a mature person , after all u're about to get marry

[Impulse]

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you've been cheating on the girls....cuz u started a relationship with the second one whilst you were still with the first one. I wouldnt want to be married to a cheater....

what to do now? you got yourself into this situation....you should be able to find a way out of it....WITHOUT hurting anyone.

[andy936]

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@khawateen

**andy… i feel for ure fiancee… tumharay lakshan koi kaafi achay nahi hain… **

**judging from the pm’s u keep sending me.. .. wanting friendship.. how you’ve read all my posts and threads… etc… **

Thx for feeling for my fiancee, yeah mayray lakshan waqya he achay nia hein, Now i have to control over myself. I m losing my Patience.

[andy936]

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@Impulse

you've been cheating on the girls....cuz u started a relationship with the second one whilst you were still with the first one. I wouldnt want to be married to a cheater....

what to do now? you got yourself into this situation....you should be able to find a way out of it....WITHOUT hurting anyone.

Impulse if i wouldn't have told you everything turely then what would you do, I could say that i have friend he got that problem but i didn't like to say that way i told you everything honestly, So you shouldn't say me that i m cheater or sumthing like that. Now i m going to finish my online story with that friend.

[andy936]

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Now i m trying to find a good way to say her goodbye forever.

[Afridi786]

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lol, i guess the trend of online love is growing, same is the case with me, attia and phatima r in love with me (I have proof for the latter in my journal, go check)

[andy936]

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@Afridi786

lol, i guess the trend of online love is growing, same is the case with me, attia and phatima r in love with me (I have proof for the latter in my journal, go check)

:D let me take a look

[Naughty_by_Nature]

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Lol what a lowlife...

Firstly i dont undrestand why people are encouraging this guy to get married...he had the maturity of a five year old...falling in love with some girl you'v seen on a webcam...what a joke...spare your fiance please...she doesnt deserve fools like you who are straying before the papers have even been signed...your an idiot...

Your finace has done nothing to make you unhappy so dont shift blame onto her...dont get married...your still in your nappies...continue with your cyber bullcrap and when you develop some respect for the women your engaged to and some discipline aling with some brain cells then think about getting married...

Ridiculous that people like this get married...

[andy936]

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@Naughty by Nature

Lol what a lowlife…

Firstly i dont undrestand why people are encouraging this guy to get married…he had the maturity of a five year old…falling in love with some girl you’v seen on a webcam…what a joke…spare your fiance please…she doesnt deserve fools like you who are straying before the papers have even been signed…your an idiot…

Your finace has done nothing to make you unhappy so dont shift blame onto her…dont get married…your still in your nappies…continue with your cyber bull**** and when you develop some respect for the women your engaged to and some discipline aling with some brain cells then think about getting married…

Ridiculous that people like this get married…

You Nonsense! if you don’t have any sincere suggestion then why you are posting your foolish reply here just Stop!!