Should I be upset on his behalf?

[BlueBells]

Re: Should I be upset on his behalf?

@redvelvet

Did they want to surprise you both? If you think that saying something will upset them and make them delay things even more…then don’t say anything. OR…you could say it in a nice way that doesn’t seem like a complaint but still can give them a hint…such as “If we only found out sooner that you were coming…we could have planned a bit better to make your visit more enjoyable.”

This wasn’t a surprise unfortunately. That’s what I thought in the beginning too, because despite his few calls after he found out through me, they still didn’t bring the trip up. They had just forgotten to tell him.

I don’t think I’m going to bother hinting around at this point. It’s just best to walk on seashells because like you said, this could cause more problems.
Although I don’t agree with being a pushover and letting your family give you the short end of the stick just because you’re the youngest and according to them, your problems might not be as big as theirs, I guess it’s just wise to be patient with these kind of things.