Mashallah I am glad to hear things worked out for you...just make sure you just give him a little bit of special attention for a while so he doesn't fall in her trap anymore. But u know what, as sad as it is with any situation like this, it is also the guys fault. They aren't innocent, they are not bholay bachay...they have their own mind and know right from wrong. But u know what matters right now is that he admitted his mistake, which is a big thing for some guys, actually many. Inshallah Allah miya aapko aur aapkay husband ko kush rahkay hamesha kay liye.
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I swear.. MEN are the most horrible thing ever.
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This has to be the worst advice given by a woman who is married. Do you share these views with your husband? Do you think the same way about your father and brothers?
I agree with the above sentiment. I have a few dog friends and all I can say is their wives are the most patient girls I know of…ro dho kur khud hi chup kur jati hain. Of course all the dogs get the good ones. That is one good thing about arranged marriages that you are hooked to the nicest person in the world, no matter what your record is like.
From your post above, it sounds like your husband is an amateur …not a real dog. I’m glad you had a one on one with him. Don’t give up on him soon..everyone wants to have a little get away from their boring married life.
And you check his emails? That’s sneaky. God! marriage! gives me shivers. What if your husband is an honest guy and finds out you have been checking his emails?
ditto May Allah protect you and your marriage from any harm but do keep tabs on him. And start the sms / frequent phone calls at work thing like someone suggested earlier just so he knows where his eyes and his brians should be.
It sounds like you have a very intelligent and devoted husband. I'm sorry you had to go through this experience. I hope your husband realizes his errors and will not become entangled in something like this again. Now let's hope this woman is not psychotic or a stalker. She sounds a bit unstable. Clearly she has no regard for you or your child. May Allah bless and protect your family.
It takes two to tango. He is not only insecure but is a coward by putting the blame entirely on third party and playing the victim.
I feel sorry for feroza having to live with the thought of being cheated on 24/7. Its not worth it.
hmmm i wonder wat he would have done if you were in his place..men doesnt it make u mad that out of all the men in the world she finds ur man to share her problems with retards
God! marriage! gives me shivers. 
May Allah protect you and your marriage from any harm but do keep tabs on him. And start the sms / frequent phone calls at work thing like someone suggested earlier just so he knows where his eyes and his brians should be.