Should i be a loving or controling husband?

Try me!

Now I did go through your other posts that what I found out.

1-you are polite that's way you are not saying "she is paindo" "I am so westernized" "she is un-parh"
Things is newly married dude never thinks about those things its you family speaking in you!!!

You uncle calling you about your wife????????????? are you F-in kidding me. All men in your family are like that???? what women do???

I feel sorry for sister who married in family of spineless men!!!!!!!!!!

You are just an extension of you uncles or phophoo or khala or some thing.
I see you 20 years from now calling your nephew NOT to be nice to her wife because she married some one of outside of the family.

2-Watch out. once this mist clears up. Your wife will be telling you what to do. That what you are trained for.

DUDE the girl who you brought from pak is also some one's "bacha" treat her nicely.

PlayStation: I still cant believe I read this "my uncle called don't be nice to her"