Should i be a loving or controling husband?

sara i agree on what ever you said. lol when i read his post that was the first thing came in my mind which you said in your 2nd post. after all some desis will always remain desis.

well if you want your wife to respect you then you should give her respect and love first then in return you will get same.. its not like if you are not nice to her then she will respect you...
stop being a mama,papa boy and do what every you thing is right..think before what you do.. does your father controled your mother and try to be not so nice to her ? just think about it and you will get the answer your self