Re: Should I accept him?
Okay so again…you have to be clear. You’ve just added more information to this picture. That he did this in his past. I would not be able to judge accurately because I don’t know him personally.
You have to ask yourself if you’re okay with his past and if he has indeed changed. And also, the things you find questionable are things ANY woman (Muslim or non-Muslim, Pakistani or not) would find questionable. So don’t doubt your gut instincts because you’re not in America. The rules change a little but not by much. Couple who are committed/dating/engaged/married don’t do this sort of thing. People flirt, hangout and do all sorts of crazy things…but not people who are in serious relationships or have committed to someone.