But why does one have to wait to get a wife in order to stop or start doing something. Someone once told me that if I marry a girl that prays then it’ll inspire me to start praying as well. Err…why not start praying before getting a wife…? I don’t understand this setting of a pre-requisite or a condition. If you know deep within yourself that a certain practice or habit or lifestyle is not the best thing for you then stop it as soon as possible. And if you’re going to delay it by setting conditions then maybe deep down you don’t really want to give it up.