Should I accept him?

[ayeshasha123]

Re: Should I accept him?

@NavAhmed

Ok. So he is 26 and he is a trainee plastic surgeon in the UK? did he tell you he was a trainee plastic surgeon or he wants to be a plastic surgeon? At 26, he is more likely to be in his internship (foundation year 1 or 2) and there is a big difference between doing an internship (a very junior clerking job) on a plastic surgery ward and a ‘trainee plastic surgeon’ (registrar, usually ST3 onwards, which is FOUR years from foundation level, most people reach that level by 29/30 years of age at the earliest)

So either he is not a trainee plastic surgeon (yet) or he is not 26. You have to be tad bit more careful and make sure there is no lie involved at such an early stage.

Yea he is currently doing his FY2. He regularly travels to do Plastic surgery internships in America, and like mentioned before, often comes to Pakistan to paediatric wards to learn about cleft lips and all that, basically comes to volunteer. I do apologise, I definitely should have phrased it better. And he is dead set on Plastic Surgery.