Re: Should I accept him?
The reason to ask that question is to gauge what he considers acceptable and to determine for you how far he will go. And if that’s something you can/can’t accept. From there you can determine if you can ignore/accept/live with his lifestyle choices, or if he will stop doing/living his partying lifestyle now…aka what third string was saying if he’s able to change… (even now when he’s single)…there’s one thing of not being able to understand. But you can still explain to him that even though its okay in his culture, its unacceptable in yours. And thats something you don’t like about western culture. If after all this deliberation he’s not willing to change..or understand what your spittin, and you can’t live and accept his lifestyle.. Than we have what you called a good old deal breaker.