Its a guy i know from a long time, orphaned at young age, he was brought up by his uncle. His uncle supported all his education but at the same time, he married her girl to him. The woman in question stopped studying after grade 10 coz she was notmuch into studies and parents never bothered bcoz she was gauranteed a rishta. They were married when he had just started his career and establishing himself was all on his mind. Now he is a successful professional, has two kids, but, couple don’t get along very well. He says that wife she is jealous, has a temper and cannot fit into his social circle nor she tries to change herself. They disagree on almost everything in life.
He is considering a divorce.
IS he justified in this?
p.s, i recomended him not to, atleast for the sake of kids.
encourage is one thing, but the other person has to take the initiative, u cant study for them.
although yes women should listen to their husbands and do exactly as they commandeth..thou shalt go to college..
so he never liked her but he has two kids with her? So another words, after using and abusing her, it's time let her go and get a new pin up barbie doll. Shahabsh jawaan, khoob hum mardon ka naam roshan karo.
I don't think the main issue for them is degree or years n school rather compatibility. And at that point of life, he was not in a position to say no, or so he says.
X2, no he has not, but in general i have found counselors don't work for desis.
judging him is fine, but lets say he made a mistake, due to feeling of obligation or whatever. would staying together in future be another mistake?
if we turned this around and had some baychari larki who got married to someone because of some feeling of obligation or not quite of her free will, and was unhappy, tried to give it her best but the husband was an ogre who refused to change..what would we be advising her?
judging him is fine, but lets say he made a mistake, due to feeling of obligation or whatever. would staying together in future be another mistake?
if we turned this around and had some baychari larki who got married to someone because of some feeling of obligation or not quite of her free will, and was unhappy, tried to give it her best but the husband was an ogre who refused to change..what would we be advising her?
I don't think the main issue for them is degree or years n school rather compatibility. And at that point of life, he was not in a position to say no, or so he says.
X2, no he has not, but in general i have found counselors don't work for desis.
so he never liked her but he has two kids with her? So another words, after using and abusing her, it's time let her go and get a new pin up barbie doll. Shahabsh jawaan, khoob hum mardon ka naam roshan karo.
You are right IT. Thats what as a man i thought too, like, why can't you just live on, keep the marriage. But got me thinking, do men think of women or wives as hmans or as furniture which can be kept in house even if not liked. Is this healthy een for the woman?