should guy and grl talk n meet before mariage??

should guy and grl talk n meet before mariage??

Re: should guy and grl talk n meet before mariage??

nope.

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No way! Never.

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why NOT PG? in the presence of elders, Islam encourages you to meet and talk to your perspective match.

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Deffinatly yes!

How will you get to know one other?... likes dislikes?.. and what if he/she is the total opposite of what u have ever wanted in ur future life partner?
If one can't meet in private, than with parents or elders? But do meet!

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No of course not. It's Haraaaaaaaaaam.

should guy and grl talk n meet before mariage??

Pata nahi yaar
There r so many Problems agar karo
Agar nahi Karo gi u wont feel good cause u dont know Ur futuring husband :confused:

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What a smart question.

It is haram unless they go meet in park. Under a tree where no one can see them.

Then they must go masjid and confess to the imam

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Na shaadi se pehlay, aur shaadi ke baad to bilkul bhi nahin! Baat karney se baat bigar thi hai.

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No. You should have an arranged marriage and you should only see your husband once you’re married. That way you have fulfilled the cultural aspects of marriage. If you disagree then you should be extradited to Pakistan to learn the right ways.

:smack:

Lmao @ the replies

:hehe:

Re: should guy and grl talk n meet before mariage??

only whatsapp

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Why would you want to talk to him?

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Marriage will always be a gamble/risk. But it becomes more of a risk if you don't know the person you're marrying. If this is what you plan to do, then don't complain after the marriage that mujhay is baat ka nahi pata tha...agar pata hota to....we're so different from each other....etc etc.

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Yes..i do believe it is important to get to know one another before marriage. Especially nowdays...because ya gota see if ya're compatable with ya're potential spouse. With so many divorces happening around..it is better to meet someone and get to know the enough.

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Too bad that it has become more of a market than getting to know someone. Are people really looking for compatibility or just someone better? I have guy friends but I despise meeting men for marriage purposes, I feel like Im on display or on sale or atleast thats how men ive met made it out to be.

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Yah but ironic how during the times it was taboo to meet before marriage, how successful those marriages have been, take our parents for example. Foolish of me to find that kind of loyalty and commitment to marriage in this day and age without first investing my entire soul into dating.

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^ Referring to your second post. You're right..but unfortunately..ya're living in the time of deception and lies. I don't believe..ya have to exclusively dating if ya don't want to..but since ya're educated and well informed individual..ya have to look after yourself.

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I dont know what's funnier, the sarcastic replies or the actual serious ones.