Should "C" be feeling guilty at all?

Person A: extremely rude, abusive, manipulative, overly judgmental, self-centered, bipolar, jealous, secretive, runs into problems because she doesn’t discuss her problems with anyone ever, marriage issues

Person B: loves Person A dearly, but Person A can be all those above mentioned things at her worst. Person B doesn’t say much back to her, because the more she will say something, the more abusive Person A gets. These episodes are random, Person A maybe frustrated with something different or whatever, then take it out on people at home for absolutely no reason and more often than not, it is Person B who gets to see the worst of Person A.

Person B gets frustrated, takes it out on Person C by blowing things out of proportion and manipulating something Person C said into something twisted and offensive. Person C tries to ignore out of love, care and respect because Person C is trying to be understanding and supportive but sometimes loses it and flips out, then feels guilty because Person C should/must always be respectful towards Person B.

Makes sense? What to do about a situation like this? Person C likes to keep away from negativity and stress but is dragged into confrontations and ends up being harsh when Person C has had enough.

Re: Should "C" be feeling guilty at all?

sounds like wife, hubby and SIL triangle issues. it's an age long problem which can be solved if all the parties involved just miraculously on one fine morning decide to be nice to each other...i'm looking forward to see at least a few happy pigs flying in the sky! :)

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Person B is mother to A and C

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This feels like mum, bro and I. Me being C, and bro being A.

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X = 20?

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Y = undefined

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Y?

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Lol

A=mum[emoji17], bro[emoji849], younger sis[emoji36]
B= dad[emoji20]
c= my sis and I [emoji945]

Re: Should "C" be feeling guilty at all?

Why not just say parent and two children? This gives more context, information and results inbetter advice

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Is this for me?

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no OP :rotfl:

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Thankyou. You just gained another sin during the "HOLY MONTH OF RAMADAN!!! my child[emoji106]🏼, keep up the good work"

..[emoji41]hehe

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Oh cool then, I read your comment and I was like " what the???"

I was going to respond but thought better to confirm first. Lol

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Person B is Person A with Person C

what?

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Exactly.

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graphical representation might help.

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So "exactly" is the answer to "so should c be feeling guilty at all?".

Lol
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That was my response to new member in post 14.

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Oh well, my bad[emoji120]🏼

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Back to ops question what should they do?

Nothing. Looks like there is balance.