Re: Should "C" be feeling guilty at all?
Person A: extremely rude, abusive, manipulative, overly judgmental, self-centered, bipolar, jealous, secretive, runs into problems because she doesn't discuss her problems with anyone ever, marriage issues
Person B: loves Person A dearly, but Person A can be all those above mentioned things at her worst. Person B doesn't say much back to her, because the more she will say something, the more abusive Person A gets. These episodes are random, Person A maybe frustrated with something different or whatever, then take it out on people at home for absolutely no reason and more often than not, it is Person B who gets to see the worst of Person A.
Person B gets frustrated, takes it out on Person C by blowing things out of proportion and manipulating something Person C said into something twisted and offensive. Person C tries to ignore out of love, care and respect because Person C is trying to be understanding and supportive but sometimes loses it and flips out, then feels guilty because Person C should/must always be respectful towards Person B.
Makes sense? What to do about a situation like this? Person C likes to keep away from negativity and stress but is dragged into confrontations and ends up being harsh when Person C has had enough.
No, to answer your question.
Person C is not guilty at all. Any person in their stable sense will give the same harsh response if constantly dragged into confrontations, given stress, played by manipulation and surrounded with negative vibes. Now I don't know who this person C is but If he/she is a child crushed between his/her parents A & B and he/she is in big trouble. By the time he/she grows up to a certain age she/he would most likely have developed certain health disorders and will most likely have possessed some "qualities" of person A (without person C's knowledge).
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