^But I’ve also heard aunties say that “lambon ki aqal ghutnay mien hoti hai” 
… methinks they’re looking for dumb bahu on purpose… higher probability of getting one 
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height is overrated
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I have heard so many cases where the girl gets rejected just because she is not tall enuf.
I don’t understand what kind of thinking people have these days. Is this really an issue ? Is it really so important that you reject a good guy or girl just because he/she doesn’t have a good height?
I myself was when going thru the rishta process got many comments that she is tall or has height equal to our son:smack:…although i am not very tall
There are only few sensible people in this world.
Hight is not the only things girls get reject for.
One little blemish and you are out. Like
color, nose , eyes , ears , even the longevity of neck or lack of it can be reason enough for a poor girl to be rejected by someone. 
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Yaar the way i look at it, key jis ko shaadi karnee hotee hai unnko naa koi khaami dikhaayee detee hai aur naa koi problem, aur jinko nahi karnee hotee to unnko das hazaar problems nazar aatee hain, sirf bahaney hain :k:
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I think it is lame when girls get rejected just because of being short n I really don't like ppl havin such shallow thinking. It's just pathetic:-(
I think physical features like shape and height is the "most important factors" for a large majority of guys and their mothers out there...
But I dont think this holds true vice vera. A guys height will be taken into consideration but it isn't "one of the most important factors". People often let a guys physical features slide if he is extremely educated or well off. Finding someone who can provide their daughter/themselves with financial stability tends to be the one of the "most important factors" taken into consideration........
I think it is a minority of people out there that reject a guy outright simply just based on height ALONE. But it is quite common for a girl to be rejected outright for physical features. Her personality isn't taken into consideration and education is not even inquired into if it is found out she is "too dark" or "too short", etc.
I'm having deja vu.... like I have already posted this opinion on some other thread before....
Totally agree with PunjabiRose, I myself have seen several ppl like that
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Petite is sexy!
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i don't really see this as an issue. I for one like a shorter girl (ofcourse i aint into midgets eiter)
I think it's usually the mums who go on about the height issue, mostly the guys just want someone v.pretty.. My mum turned down a couple of shorter girls solely because of their heights because she wanted a tallish DIL but then he went out and found a girl himself who's only 5"1 (the shortest and most petite of all of them) and now they're getting married :D
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I guess it comes from our 'show off' culture. Perhaps the 'larkey walay' want to show off a 'tall dulhan'?
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If she is otherwise compatible then why reject? Same goes for selecting man.
If there is a must requirement for her or him to be tall, then there is some problem.
It is not so uncommon that since there is no shortage of girls, man family does eventually find a tall enough girl iwith other acceptable qualities.
It dooes happen that very educated, nice and respectable family girl is not chosen for her height (or color) not be acceptable.
Same goes in reverse. That is why, men/girls should also take some control in finding their mate instead of leaving it all up to family members.
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Yar whats the big deal. Short guys for short girls, tall guys for tall girls and medium guys for medium girls. So you see, God has made couples for every one.
Some couples marry without taking height into consideration, great. Otherwise, God has given us a choice to choose the type of person we like. Some guys want to marry a short/petite girl, good for them. Some guys wanna marry medium height girls, good for them and some wanna marry tall girls....again good for them.
But I think its better to find out about these things before actually coming for a rishta and then rejecting the girl saying she is not tall. Leaves bad imprints on the girl's mind. However, just by giving "intellectual" arguments, no one can take away the right away of choosing your partner.... I don't see anything wrong with someone who prefers tall girls.
yeah…hamari family mein aisa couple hy girl is 5’7" and the boy 5’3’’
i pray to Allah…mujhay bhi sensible log mil jain.Aameen.
…guys…i am short toooo:cb:
bilkul.aur luck ki baat bhi hoti hy na:)
:aq:
I think it's usually the mums who go on about the height issue, mostly the guys just want someone v.pretty.. My mum turned down a couple of shorter girls solely because of their heights because she wanted a tallish DIL but then he went out and found a girl himself who's only 5"1 (the shortest and most petite of all of them) and now they're getting married :D
Agree, it's always the mum who have the height issue