I don't usually get involved in these type of threads, but I have no choice, but to give my opinion on this one.
I have been following the thread, and will state that I agree with Ibraheem on the issue in question.
Call me biased if you like, but Ibraheem has presented valid arguments.
I believe that Gandalf has also countered in his view, but a fundamental issue was missed!
Namely:
The Ahl'Bayt does NOT apply to only 5 members of the Prophet PBUH's household. This is made very clear in the Qur'aan. When the families of the Messengers are mentioned it includes all members:
003.033 Allah did choose Adam and Noah, the family of Abraham, and the family of
‘Imran above all people,-
028.029 Now when Moses had fulfilled the term, and was travelling with his family, he perceived a fire in the direction of Mount Tur. He said to his family: "Tarry ye; I perceive a fire; I hope to bring you from there some information, or a burning firebrand, that ye may warm yourselves."
A family does not become complete, until at least both Husband and Wife are included into the equation, as they are the primary source of the household.
When you marry someone, you automatically become a member of that household.
This is the only way a FAMILY can commence and continue. Through marriage.
I have yet to meet a Shi'ite who includes all the wives and children of the Prophet as Ahl'Bayt.
No mention is made of Hazrat Khadijah RA, Ibraheem, Al Qasim, Zaynab, Ruqqayah, Umm Kulthum, or their children Ummamah, Ali, Abyssinia, or the husbands Abul Aas and Uthman. Even Hazrat Ali RA's other three children are left out of the equation, when Ahl'Bayt is mentioned.
What carries more authority, the Qur'aan or A'Hadeeth?
Obviously the Qur'aan.
The Qur'aan quite clearly mentions who the Ahl'Bayt are and NO I repeat NO A'Hadeeth is required to explain the family.
Secondly, if I was to use the same reason of thought as certain people, then the following would be said.
Hazrat Ali RA is NOT mentioned in any ayats relating to the Ahl'Bayt, but the Wives are. Therefore they carry more authority.
Hazrat Ali RA did NOT treat one of the Mothers of Believers as a Mother. Therefore, this is in direct contradiction of the Qur'aan!
Hazrat Ai'shaa RA spent 10 years with the Prophet PBUH, which is nearly half of the period of revelation and Prophethood. But obviously, according to some logic, the Prophet PBUH was wrong in doing so, and furthermore, 10 years was not long enough for the warning of a bad choice to be revealed to the Prophet PBUH.
Ahl'Bayt means ALL the Prophet PBUH family and not just a select few.
Either you accept all the members or none at all. Very simple.
Ayat 33-63, is particularly addressed to the Nasara inviting them to accept the truth revealed in the Qur'aan and to correct their various false notions about Jesus. We also find in this discourse, the Qur'aan completely absolves Jesus and and his mother of the malicious views of the Jews about them and also refutes the erroneous belief of the Nasara regarding the Divinity of Jesus.
The whole issue is dealing with Jesus and the false attributes connected to him.
Furthermore, when the ayat mentions the bringing of sons, women and ourselves, it relates to the communities and not just the Family of each party. If this was the case, then how could Jesus's followers bring the Family of Jesus! Jesus was not even married, let alone had children!
The Qur'aan regularly speaks in parables. For instance when Mary is spoken to in the following ayat:
019.028 "O sister of Aaron! Thy father was not a man of evil, nor thy mother a woman unchaste!"
Mary had NO brother named Aaron. Check the chronolgy. So what does this mean!
The nearest you will find of Aaron to Mary is the brother of Moses. But Mary shares the same lineage from Isaac.
Can it be that the Qur'aan made a mistake!!!
In Arabic grammar, their is no such thing as Negative and Positive Grammar.
All of the Arabic alphabet with exception to alif, are consonents.
These consonents are divided into 2 groups, the sun letters and the moon letters. I won't elaborate further on this as it may be a bit too deep for you to take on board at the moment.
You have vowel markings for the likes of you so that reading can be made easier and these markings are known as I'rab markings.
When Fatha, Kasrah or Dammah are doubled, This is called Tanwin.
You have 2 Plurals in Arabic, the Complete plural and the Broken Plural. I'll leave their formations for the time being, as I'm sure you're struggling as we speak.
The Noun has 3 genders, which is Masculine, Feminine and Common.
For the record, the ayat in question is an Adverstative sentence due to starting with OH! and the meaning is Declarative due to some kind of desire being present and continuation of declaration.
The Declarative sentence has ten kinds:
Order
Prohibitive
Interrogative
Hypothetical or Optative
Probability
Contract
Vocative
Supplication
Oath
Exclamatory
History and A'Hadeeth DO NOT override the status of the Qur'aan.
The Primary source for all queries, IS the Qur'aan.
So, if the Qur'aan has made it abundantly clear, concerning the Ahl'Bayt, then noone can dispute this fact.
However, if individuals want to totally ignore the ayats and put A'Hadeeth and History before the Qur'aan for Political Gain, then so be it.
This is why we have been given the best gift of all. CHOICE.
We can CHOOSE to accept or decline!
And Abdullah Ibn Saba decided to decline.