Shia father and suni mother

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Re: Shia father and suni mother

@shaasavera

If he’s always been doing it to his wife he won’t change now especially not for his children. Why doesn’t he want to marry kids? What will he do with keeping them at home?

Maybe tell him the later the children marry the later the chance he has to be grandfather. It could even reduce chances. If he’s a very old grandfather he won’t have chance to play or run around as much with children. Kal kis ne Dekha ..agar woh kal kabhi Nahi aaye to ?

All his brother and and sisters will have grandchildren and if his kids don’t marry he won’t. dreams he couldn’t fulfil with children he can fulfill with grand children. Dream that shayad Bacche next shahid afridi, wasim akram, Rahat fateh Ali khan ya nazia Hassan banenge. Agar grand children Nahi honge to yeh unke liye kabhi sach Nahi hoga.

30-40 yrs from now when he is remembering Allah(swt) and having his final breaths how does he want to be remembered be his children? As loving and caring father or dictator who never listened to them. Choice is his. Decision is his.

I think girl should get married anyway..she can’t waste away her life because father doesn’t care enough.

He’s already in 60’s. Nothing could change him.
He has alot of issues in business. He has always been in trouble in business he’s nit understanding that he’s not doing according to islam and not completing haqooq ul ibaad plus basic family rights as a husband and father that’s why he’s never stable in business. A part from this he never fulfilled his children wishes though they are certainly worldly wishes yet he was a father. Girl’s mother had always been seeking help from her sisters not because they can’t afford but he doesn’t give enough for household even.
Things are certainly tough, remember her in prayers everyone.