Shia father and suni mother

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Re: Shia father and suni mother

@chikri_bikri

Yeah sort of rejection plus he has always been doing opposite to his wife.
One important thing in this scenario is that he doesn’t want to marry his kids. Her elder brother is also 30 but they even haven’t seeing any rishta for him too. He never talks about his children to get marry. Whole family has been saying and asking him over and over but he doesn’t bother.
What to do to make him realize that children are getting late to get marry ?

If he’s always been doing it to his wife he won’t change now especially not for his children. Why doesn’t he want to marry kids? What will he do with keeping them at home?

Maybe tell him the later the children marry the later the chance he has to be grandfather. It could even reduce chances. If he’s a very old grandfather he won’t have chance to play or run around as much with children. Kal kis ne Dekha ..agar woh kal kabhi Nahi aaye to ?

All his brother and and sisters will have grandchildren and if his kids don’t marry he won’t. dreams he couldn’t fulfil with children he can fulfill with grand children. Dream that shayad Bacche next shahid afridi, wasim akram, Rahat fateh Ali khan ya nazia Hassan banenge. Agar grand children Nahi honge to yeh unke liye kabhi sach Nahi hoga.

30-40 yrs from now when he is remembering Allah(swt) and having his final breaths how does he want to be remembered be his children? As loving and caring father or dictator who never listened to them. Choice is his. Decision is his.

I think girl should get married anyway..she can’t waste away her life because father doesn’t care enough.