Shia father and suni mother

[chikri_bikri]

Re: Shia father and suni mother

@amber19

That’s exactly what I’m trying to say, you can’t start a marriage off based on a secret or a tiny lie. Yes she doesn’t identify as a Shia but if her father is that adamant and her in laws don’t know, if might cause problems for her later on, especially if she’s going to be living with her in-laws. She should tell the guy to be upfront with his parents and see their reaction.

The guy’s answer on this was that he is going to marry her not her dad plus the dad’s family is basically not of shia sect, girl’s paternal grand parents were suni and taaya and all, some of her dad’s close relatives got married in shia and he was a child so had shia influence. That’s why he doesn’t feel necessary to tell his parents. Her dad is not much practicing shiaism though, infact not at all practicing Muslim even.
To me it seems that because it’s a broken family issue so he is just disagreeing to his wife and doing for the sake of ego.
He has always been disagreeing his wife.