Shia father and suni mother

[amber19]

Re: Shia father and suni mother

@Demesne

All that set aside, the issue really is a father daughter issue rather than anything else I believe. That father wants to choose and it is as simple as that.

But the guy is doing himself and the girl a disservice by not telling his family. If she gets what she wants inshallah and does get married, perhaps his family won’t like not having known this

That’s exactly what I’m trying to say, you can’t start a marriage off based on a secret or a tiny lie. Yes she doesn’t identify as a Shia but if her father is that adamant and her in laws don’t know, if might cause problems for her later on, especially if she’s going to be living with her in-laws. She should tell the guy to be upfront with his parents and see their reaction.