Shia father and suni mother

[chikri_bikri]

Re: Shia father and suni mother

@IndiGo_Rain

Good grief, the parents’ marriage is over and done with. The matter at hand is the OP’s situation and not the overall success rate of Shia-Sunni marriages. I don’t have anything personal against Shias as I’ve had friends from this and other minority sects. The only thing I will say is that if one believes their religion to be the truth and is confident in it, then there shouldn’t be an attitude of secrecy about it; you shouldn’t be hiding it unless there is maybe like a threat to your life or something. Marriage isn’t a life or death situation. So, if you are hiding your religion, then you have to do some inner reflection about your equation with your faith. Op, I don’t know if you have already answered this question but are there any wise and influential elders from the family such as grandparents, aunts or uncles that can speak to your dad? Is there an open minded elder from your dad’s family?

Yeah some of elders tried talking and to him, her father said yes he’ll go and meet but later he says no.