Re: Shia father and suni mother
Thank you everyone for your response! **
^ I really appreciate your detailed reply. It’s still shia suni issue because she says if a man bleeding comes to her home in muharam or whole in laws family then how will she survive ? **She has been following suni beliefs for her whole life, it’s even hard for her or her mother to see what happens at her own home during muharam. (Though his father ,brothers doesn’t do zanjeer zani but other paternal relatives do this is what I know I’m not sure though)
Her brothers are following Shia sect and they are like father is saying right and she should accept. They infact say we sent you out of home for studies and job for this day that you fall in love with someone.
Clearly it’s a broken family issue yet needed to be resolved else she’ll be living the same life her mother led.
They boy took stand as in the beginning his parents were making an issue of different caste but now they have accepted her whole heartily as already considering her as their DIL. The guy can only make his parents agree on her but how can do further, the guy said I’ll wait no matter what but parents pressure for early marriage is there.
I really want to know where this friend lives that she can expect a man to come bleeding to her home.
Whereever she marries, if bleeding men are so common in shia, will her father never visit in muharram or her shia brothers? Or do they not bleed?