There are many women that are extremely angry at men. They blame men for all of their problems. Men are “jerks”, “idiots” and “users.” Sometimes they play tricks just to disgrace men for having a penis. I agree that some men are bad. Some might have treated these women in a deplorable way. Cheated, lied or played but come one generalizing everyone isn’t sharp either.
I have some questions. Are these girls worth a relationship? Do they have to ‘let go’ of some of the baggage in order to get into a relationship? or Only a relationship can change their attitudes towards Men? Is there any hope?
if there is one golden rule you need to know about relationships.. it's that never enter them in the hope that they will change themself or you'll be able to change them.
all these girls who open up all these threds about guys are selfish and have one sided opinions, they are never gonna tell you why guys treat em that way, may be there is something wrong with them, but in any case, they have too much anger. may be they need a good “edited”
There really isnt a straight answer to your question...too many other things would depend on the outcome....
ie., what exactly is the problem with the gal? I've met some desi gals who seem very bitter that they were not afforded the same opportunities they would have had if they were male....so these gals perhaps could find peace with a husband who sends them to college and persue a career.
If the gal is just bitter against men in general, ie., has just seen to many lyin' cheatin' types and so thinks they're ALL like that, well thats a tougher nut to crack. If the guy has the fortitude to undertake and dissuade then all the more power to him.
There are, of course, countless other situations that may make a gal seem angry at men....you have to look at the underlying cause of the attitude, determine what it would take to turn the attitude around and then decide if the effort required is worth that effort. Not trying to be evasive here...
well if the woman has been in messed up relationships before u cant blame her for hating men. cuz its easier to blame the entire gender than to analyze exactly what was is that made the man treat her so badly,…in many cases there IS no explanation, a man might just be abusive etc by birth…
especially if a girl grows up in a family with very little exposure to the outside world she will start taking a man’s nature = what she sees in her family. but i always get confused at that…this girl could take this nature and be content with it…(expect this behaviour from ALL men) OR she could hate this behavior…err ok sorry im lost. bye
there are many women that are extremely angry at men.
they make me feel very sorry for them…
I have some questions. Are these girls worth a relationship?
no
Do they have to ‘let go’ of some of the baggage in order to get into a relationship?
exactly, and only therafter are they worth a relationship
or Only a relationship can change their attitudes towards Men?
no, it woulb be worse cause dommed to fail, so they will hate men even more
Is there any hope?
yes, they can realise all men are not bad…
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I wrote my response with the thinking that it kind of sounded like you were looking for advice on a relationship with a somewhat troubled gal....if you have a choice and do not have an attachment, then the best thing to do is avoid an angry-type gal at all costs!
As far as what did YOU do? Nothing. There are many many wonderful men on the planet and they are deserving of a beautiful relationship with a spouse....there are many messed up people on the planet too. Their experiences colored their perceptions...so it isnt YOU, its the past experiences that they're making you "pay for"...
They say a girls relationship with her father affects every other relationship she has with a man,so if she has a good male role model in her life she should have a healthy approach towards men.
Similarly, guys could develop hate or dislike for females due to bad experiences, so its not just exclusive to women.
<----------- brotherly hug,
