It's a cute dress. Maybe whoever got it (most likely the in laws) were thinking that so the girls couldn't complain about it afterwards that oh she got a better outfit etc so they got teh xact same stuff. I can undrestand why, but still...they could've done a better job at it.
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^ atleast there hubbies look different
agreed, I think they both look really pretty and their dresses are also nice, although a joint wedding is seriously a nightmare for me! but sumorani's right, a lot of people might do it for financial reasons.
^ atleast there hubbies look different
even they're weraing the same jora :p
LOL! fasaadi, where did you find that one? I like their dresses but just LOL!
OMG 
one bride looks happy and the other sad
they should of atleast let them chose there lenghas if its goin to be a joint wedding.
^ atleast there hubbies look different
hahaha...Thank GOD for that!!
hahhahaha thats true omg i would not be so happy either if i was made to have a joint wedding and the same dresss
my sister had a joint wedding, her husband has a twin so they thought it would be good to have it together, but they had diff lenghas. and my sister looked so beutiful much better then the other bride (im not just saying becoz shes my sister) so i felt kinda sorry for her :s
i heard that my in laws might be suggesting that they will have joint wedding with my fiances older brother and us i was like i refuse to even turn up to the venue if that happens ! ( i hope they were joking or they forget bout it!)
married ladies
hi all
so who had a double wedding??? as in 2 brothers getting married.......so there ended up being a shared walima
how was it? how did it feel?
would love to hear your stories :)
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It's horrible .....don't go for it ! You might end up becoming invisible.
It's my sincere advise to you , if you can avoid then avoid a shared valima !
Re: married ladies
I don't think any bride would have a say in the matter. If the in-laws want to have a double valima, they'll organize one.
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^ I agree !
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Your right there mahi!
everyone who will attend the wedding would be comparing the 2 brides - my cousin is in this situation and the 2 brides dont even know eachother!!! will be so awkward for her!
Re: Sharing your wedding day!
It's not only about comparing the two brides. In laws will never be able to treat them fairly , one of the bride will end up being ignored. In laws will have a preference for sure and that preference will surface on the valima day.
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The brides don't have to talk to each other. They'll most probably enter together with their husbands and go sit on the stage. They don't really have to talk. Just smiling and shaking hands with the approaching relatives would be enough i.e. if the wedding is in Pakistan.
I think it would be a good gesture if one bride tells her mom/sister/friend to compliment the other bride as well so that the other one feels at peace, too since everyone would be comparing to death. :)
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my cousins is out of the family the guys choice and the other one is their neice parents choice so she would always be the favourite i asume!
i have just advised her give it your best and u will be fine! i would hate to share my wedding with someone!
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I have seen many bahus who were originally favoured by the in-laws because she belonged to their own family lose the elite status because of their behaviour.
Your cousin should really stop fretting and give it her best. After all, shared or not it'll be her own valima!
BTW, are they going to wear the same outfits/jewelery and get their makeup from the same parlour?
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no because in our families the guys side give the outfit and jewellery for the wedding day walima is from your own side!!!!
but do u think the bahu from the family will be favoured over the outside one? or do u think they will do extra with the outsdie bahu to make her feel part of the family?
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^Anything can happen and it can go either way. It really depends upon the family and the bride's relationship with the in-laws.
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no...i would never want to share my wedding day with another couple...i would like to be the centre of attn. i mean...its Ur dayy. and same goes to the other couple..its THEIR day.