Sharing your wedding day!

asma786 · April 26, 2010, 2:21am

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me and my sister got married the same day but I dont like it and was against it but it wasnt ment to be.there is bound to differences in gold giving,clothing,presents etc between both inlaw families and this makes one family feel more superior than the next,in the end one person feels a certain way,had both weddings taken place on different occasions these things wouldnt have mattered.a persons wedding day should be their day alone.

redvelvet · April 26, 2010, 5:33am

What is so strange about that? It is reasonable to expect people to compare the brides if they are going to have a joint wedding. In this case there were two brothers getting married. But even if the grooms and brides were not related to one another.............people would STILL compare the brides if they're both sitting in the same room.

No, I wouldn't want to share my wedding day with anyone. Most brides wish to stand out on their special day. You're the star of the show. And it's hard to stand out...when you're sharing the spotlight with someone else. And the desi audience can be pretty tactless with their comments when there is ONLY ONE bride to look at..........why make it even more easier for them by putting two brides before them?

If you wanna share your special day with someone..........share your birthday. But other events such as graduations.......weddings.......haqeeqas.......keep em separate.

paliz654654 · April 26, 2010, 7:20am

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oohhhhhhh my God
sharing wedding!!!!
come on in my country sharing weddings come on news!!!!
then i see there in pakistan its something common & some even liked it!!!

anyhow for my country thats baseless to do & i have never seen or heared...just in news like when two twins married other twins....

anyway sharing ur day isnt something that i can think in my mind for a second abt it even!!!!
thats nonsence for me....

paliz654654 · April 26, 2010, 7:25am

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also...its stupid to think if u put 2 brides then all ppl r angel to not talk...even though ppl cant see the couple heart for love or they dont know abt their mental behavior so all they see is beauty...money & max education so they compare its not abt ur country ...dont think only pakistanies talk like this....as humans r same in whole world....eyes see so they will compare when u put two things in same name front them....

so pro isnt with ppl who talk ...pro is with thoes couple who shared wedding for any reason they did ppl will talk so dont mind also...

M_was_here · April 26, 2010, 7:56am

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^^Okay, you make no sense. And it's been established that the actual bride/groom don't CHOOSE to share weddings. The "pro" is with the families who may have their own problems. And it's not common in Pakistan though it does happen.

What's news-worthy about somebody getting married on the same day? Don't be a drama queen =/

paliz654654 · April 26, 2010, 8:33am

dear i didnt fight with anyone here...just shared my idea that it seem strange...if i said common i didnt mean out of 10couple 5 do liek this...but in this thread i saw some ppl even liked...or some disliked cuz their experince...so wats mean??? means its something that happen & its not strange for u....

here in my country its strange so its coming on news...as intresting & strange work to do....like asking how they shared wedding etc...cuz its something like record...

also i didnt say its bad to share cuz pro...that u fight with me(even here in thread some ppl liked it for their own thats their own idea)
i said for any pro u share (any surly is depend on money & thats mostly depend on parents not bride for sure) then u shouldnt mind ppl talks...as pro was with u not with ppl who talk....

M_was_here · April 26, 2010, 12:08pm

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And which country are you from exactly?^^

Desi_BeauTii · April 26, 2010, 1:50pm

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I could never do that. My fiancee is lucky im sharing my wedding with him LOL!!! My wedding is going to be all about me! ME ME ME!!!!

system · April 26, 2010, 11:34pm

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When my dad wants to get me to do something, and I do 'nakhre' (as he says), he threatens to get me and my sister married on the same day! :o( Jokingly of course.

Desi_BeauTii · April 27, 2010, 4:42am

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lol woww

M_was_here · April 27, 2010, 9:24am

LOL desi.girl! That's adorable!

LOL. I couldn't agree more w/ you on that. I mention wedding stuff w/ my fiancé and he's like, "Err, do I get have a say?" lol

Desi_BeauTii · April 27, 2010, 2:07pm

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I know right.... everyone knows the wedding is all about the bride!! Of course the groom gets to take the bride home for the rest of his life!!!

Jalta_Deeya · December 8, 2010, 5:20pm

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Account of a double wedding covered by Film Style Weddings.

The happening is quite rare in USA and UK so I never thought I would witness such an event. I always thought of cat-fights and brawls if two brides had to share a day let alone the same venue! But, this turned out to be good! Really, it did!

Even the cinematographers were a little anxious about the challenge of it all, doing justice to the stories of two separate couples, even while dividing their attention between them.

Looking at the pics, I think they did a fantabulous job!

Jalta_Deeya · December 8, 2010, 5:23pm

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