So, I automatically assume that after marriage…things like email accounts, facebook accounts, passwords for all of your other accounts are no longer secret.
They’re to be shared with my spouse, right? Even though it makes me uncomfortable, I get it.
What do you all think? Would you share your email passwords, facebook accounts, etc after you sign the dotted line?
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What for? Not that i would have anything to hide from my husband but i dont see the point in sharing passwords. Seriously! isnt it bit too chummy? 
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I won't mind sharing my passwords anywhere with him :)
But why share...don't see the point!
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share if require else wont need to share ...
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Share the passwords …and open more accounts for things not to be shown 
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Got nothing to hide. She can snoop all she wants.
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We never shared any passwords etc in the beginning of the marriage but now after living together for 8 years we do.
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If i may ask, WHY? Is there a reason to do so?.
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No i wont share. Need to keep atleast the passwords private after sharing everything 
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No i wont share it in the begining. Later like hareem may be i ll share.
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yeah why not.. it shouldn't be a huge deal.
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That is what usually ends up happening.
To the OP: I’ve seen this happen a lot, its not just limited to marriage, I know people with steady boyfriends/girlfriends sharing their facebook/email/msn passwords. My friend’s fiance once logged in on msn through his account, I tried to message him and got no reply. I then started sending him every Arabic swear word in the dictionary (as we sometimes did in those days) and when I didn’t get a reply, every swear word in Urdu. It turned out his fiance understood arabic too and told my friend that he has some very ‘gandey’ friends…lol. My friend was cool about it though.
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If i may ask, WHY? Is there a reason to do so?.
Well, we didn't ask each other for passwords but it happened mostly because of need. Sometimes, he's at work and he wants me to send him some attachments or something using his e-mail and sometimes I tell him to access my e-mails from his work when I don't have any internet connections working at home. Of course after living together for nearly a decade we find each other trustworthy and mature enough to share the info.
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If we ask, yes, if not, no....IMO its weird when one party insists on something (either to not give or to give the password)....THATS suspicious.
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Sure, my parents share everything.
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Nothing to hide, sure..
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The 1st thing she did was ask for my passwords, and ever since then the weird statuses she puts on that I have to deal with. :(
Edit: Statuses such as:
"Chunky loves Gina"
"Chunky loves cupcakes" When I only like muffins.
"Chunky is a Chuchunder" When I'm just a cute lil monkey. (I'm sure you all agree)
"Chunky hates Mr. Burgers" When I absolutely wootly love Mr. Burgers.
"Chunky Loves Gina" theek I do lekin why tell the whole world? kisi ki buree nazar lugtey dair thodi naa lugtee hai.
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It should always be need to know basis. Like Hareem in her husband do.
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i definitely would share everything with him....but won't ask him to unless he himself shares with me.
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When you're with the right person, these things really don't matter.