a) when one is a baby and is like this:LB:
b) Like Namaan mentioned- when they are legally entitled to call themselves shareef as a result of their surname.
a) when one is a baby and is like this:LB:
b) Like Namaan mentioned- when they are legally entitled to call themselves shareef as a result of their surname.
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i think its the same here and pak, u get some that are shareef and some that arent
In u’re other thread u said you’ve hurt a couple of girls ![]()
lol Aisha.
I feel like but actually they got into that situation themselves.
and it’s a complete different matter.
never watched dirty scenes in movies.
are we describing a saint here ?
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There are some shareef men still out there. They may have had a couple of flings here and there but once they get married their loyalties are to their wives alone. I would say that in the social circle we have, we have a 100% shareefness. From what I know of. But then I don't know the secret lives of people.
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shareef munda from the 1930s and shareef boy from the 1960s world of difference. imagine 2009. yah right u get my point. the different avenues available today is mind blowing compared to the past so you can expect the society to go down in morals and all the other aspects of life. it's no surprise.
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guys only 2 shareef left are Nawaz Shareed and Babra Shreef ... thats pretty much it !
guys only 2 shareef left are Nawaz Shareed and Babra Shreef ... thats pretty much it !
why ? ya aint friends with shahbaz shareef and umer shareef ?
why ? ya aint friends with shahbaz shareef and umer shareef ?
ok 4 shareefs :)
Most of our desi men are not good looking. It's like they've all been produced from inbreeding, and they just have these...faces. Look like globs of goo.
dont u think this is a bit offensive ? are guyz in ur blood relations belonging to some other world ?
VERY RUDE a comment
All I know, is that having a good job doesn't make you shareef. "looking" shareef, doesn't make you shareef. If you sleep around pre-marriage, doesn't make you shareef. If you make dhamkis to your spouse to sleep around after marriage, that ain't shareef. If you do drugs, doesn't make you shareef. If you have a low moral character, yet are perfect on paper, doesn't make you shareef.
Same applies to girls.
Agreed. Sadly, such guys are a rarity or maybe even non-existent.
In addition to sleeping around, I would also add playing around and alcohol consumption.
This reminds me of a guy I met who had 10 sexual partners in his life. Pakistani and Muslim. And when I asked him how he felt About it - ie. Any remorse ? He was like… Why? They were asking for it - not my fault.
It was always the girl. She came around asking for trouble. Men should not need to assume responsibility.
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maybe its just me but a guy having consensual sex doesn't automatically disqualify him from being shareef in my books. but tha'ts just me.
well what constitutes a shareef acha bacha? a good natured virgin who prays atleast a couple of times a day? maybe 25%
i pray for myself and not for others.
so its better to state that the guy needs to be God fearer, and salah.
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Sharafat is shown by how you treat others. It really is as simple as that.
How many Pakistani men do you think, honestly, are shareef achay bachay?
... they automatically become (Maa kay) shareef achay bachay once they get married :D
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my husband would have been categorized as the shareef guy. he never dated or had friends who were girls, never went out alot or stayed out late, is respectful and kind to everyone, etc.
is that a great thing? yeah of course. But to be honest, i wish he had a gf before we got married....i feel like i have to teach him about being around girls and what date places would be good to go out to, and how to be romantic, etc.....which sometimes I wished he knew how to do or to know without me asking/telling him how!
lol..
good question