All I know, is that having a good job doesn't make you shareef. "looking" shareef, doesn't make you shareef. If you sleep around pre-marriage, doesn't make you shareef. If you make dhamkis to your spouse to sleep around after marriage, that ain't shareef. If you do drugs, doesn't make you shareef. If you have a low moral character, yet are perfect on paper, doesn't make you shareef.
Same applies to girls.
Agreed. Sadly, such guys are a rarity or maybe even non-existent.
In addition to sleeping around, I would also add playing around and alcohol consumption.