How you’ll treat your kid if u came to know that he/she asking for money from the strangers. 
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ek rakh key thappar, aur phir take some of his previlleges away, as a parent you got to be harsh and stern sometimes.
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^ I second on the "ek rakh key thappar" !!!!!
but I wouldn't be concerned about my own kids because I know I have thought them what's right and what's wrong. Having said that, we cannot go over everything in life with kids - but in case I found out - then definitely a thappar will be good enough :D
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erm, wth at these replies.
yeh, i would hope the upbringing has been good enough that the child doesn't do this.
if he/she does, yeh he/she should be aware that you are unhappy and the behaviour is wrong but a slap won't explain why to the child.
the parents need to find out why their child felt he/she had to ask for money from strangers and what made him/her think it's an okay thing to do. then they need to explain why it's not appropriate etc.
kids are naughty and do need discipline sometimes but this sounds more like a failure from the parents side. OR the child has a hard time distinguishing right from wrong/appropriate from inappropriate (such as autism spectrum sufferers) and therefore it needs more care and attention in regards to this stuff and constant explaining.
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kids are kids ...sometime they ask just because they are innocent, in that case we will laugh and tell him/her thats its not nice to ask for any gift or money from others. you always have to ask mama/baba if you want anything.
if they make this a habit although they fully understand its wrong, then off course we have to deal with it a bit harshly. we always start with locking down their fav things for specific period (like DS etc) and it works...
How you’ll treat your kid if u came to know that he/she asking for money from the strangers.
bacha memon hay kyaa?
Hello ka jawaab kahan hay 
R U muslim or not?
You said Hello, you kafir.
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LK you a girl?
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beta yeh buri baat hoti hai.
You said Hello, you kafir.
hello na kehta to or kiya 'Oye' keh ke bulata??? Sirf 'kidz' likha hay not butt, memon, shaikh etc etc. Share ur idea 'bout how u treat ya kidz. if u can't then leave the space for some1 else with useful info.
Or naraz mat hona
LK you a girl?
No i'm boy
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Thought so.hmmm
Ask a married women with kids she will tell you.
Have your thread moved to parenting forum.
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i second the thukayi option ...and honestly ask your kid why is he doing that ... and tll him that money is not an issue can he can ask u for anything he/she desires
Thought so.hmmm
Ask a married women with kids she will tell you. Have your thread moved to parenting forum.
Married couple asked me this question so that's why i opened this thread. I don't understand what u said in ya 2nd line?
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I would threaten the kid so badly that its scarred for life.... If threatening doesn't work a slap on the bum shud do... If beating doesn't work THEN i will sit and try and understand whats wrong with it!
my poor future bachay
I would threaten the kid so badly that its scarred for life.... If threatening doesn't work a slap on the bum shud do... If beating doesn't work THEN i will sit and try and understand whats wrong with it!
my poor future bachay
okay if i was a kid and if i was getting off with either a verbal scare or a slap on the bum i would trade my parents for you in a heart beat :D
can you be my mommy please?
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^ U dont know how i scare kids... i am evil!
i keep my little bro and sister in check and they're both scared of my evil look! It will haunt you while u sleep
still interested?? :P
any day, i have pretty much gotten my a$$ kicked with everything imaginable, how bout hangars, jootay, belt, and ohh yeah i was getting a whooping while driving a car on the highway when i told my dad i was in love with a girl and i could not even stop on the side otherwise instead of 6-7 laafay i would have gotten 15-20 
ohh i was a trouble maker from day one and my dad royally kicked my a$$. I guess i turned out fine, a few bad habits but ohh well. But yeah verbal scares dont bother me :k:
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Interesting question is the kidz are not allowed to go alone outside. Yes they go out with parents they buy whatever they like. Every day get pocket money also. But the parents trying to find out how this idea came into kidz mind k they ask money from strangers.
Moreover, When 'stranger' word came into my mind what worst could be happne with ya kidz. Slap n scare will not stop the kidz for doing it again. Kidz know if they wanna more candy then they have to pay more money.