Share the best way u can treat your kidz

[lady_lama]

@kaun

any day, i have pretty much gotten my a$$ kicked with everything imaginable, how bout hangars, jootay, belt, and ohh yeah i was getting a whooping while driving a car on the highway when i told my dad i was in love with a girl and i could not even stop on the side otherwise instead of 6-7 laafay i would have gotten 15-20 ohh i was a trouble maker from day one and my dad royally kicked my a$$. I guess i turned out fine, a few bad habits but ohh well. But yeah verbal scares dont bother me :k:

u are one dheet bacha!! what about chairs?? ever had a chair thrown at u

[baji2720]

Re: Share the best way u can treat your kidz

i have two kids...and i dont think this could happen...why would they ask a stranger? If you mean a small child asking an auntie for money to buy candy, then they are just innocent kids...i have an amost 14 yr old and a 7 year old, and i dont see either of them ever doing this...Actually i have encountered another issue, especially with my 7 yr old, he is toooo generous if i give him more money then he needed for something at school, he will give away the rest, once his dad gave him a $10 (i dont know why) and his teacher told me he was giving out dollars, when i asked him he said "because they didnt have any" i love it that he is generous and likes to help out, but not to that extent... these are not poor children, but it made feel proud of him, that he is not selfish...

[Sheroz]

Re: Share the best way u can treat your kidz

I would never beat my kids, unless they do something really screwed up which, no doubt, will mean that i give them one on the back of their head.

Beating or torturing kids doesn't help, it makes it worse. When you constantly beat your kids, they get used to it and still end up doing stuff that you don't want them to do. That's because, they don't have any fear left inside them and they start to follow the doctorine: "Eik kaan see sunoo, doosre sai nikalo".

They best thing is to sit down with them and explain it to them, keep an eye on the company they keep and monitor them when they are with their 'close friends'.

In my opinoin, there are two reasons or (at best 3) why your kid will end up asking strangers for money:

• You fail to fulfill his desires i.e. don't give him/her enough money.
• You didn't teach your kid(s) manners
• Your kid is so innocent that he/she doesn't know it's not right asking strangers for money. In this case, communication is the key. Sit down with your kid and tell him/her that it's not right and don't do it again.

With the exception of the third point, it's the parents who should be held responsible if their kids go and ask strangers for money or other stuff.

[UZ]

This is a parenting forum thread

[lethal_kamikaze]

I would threaten the kid so badly that its scarred for life.... If threatening doesn't work a slap on the bum shud do... If beating doesn't work THEN i will sit and try and understand whats wrong with it!

my poor future bachay

Bachpan mein jis ke saath jaise guzarti hay woh aisa hi karta hay. Threaten, slaps and last try to understand whats wrong. O larki try to understand what is wrong with you. itna stone heart kiyon?

[lethal_kamikaze]

• You fail to fulfill his desires i.e. don't give him/her enough money.
• You didn't teach your kid(s) manners
• Your kid is so innocent that he/she doesn't know it's not right asking

I asked my friend 'but this ke ru both fail to fulfill his/her desires they said. No every weekend we go out where our kidz wanna go i.e. park, kidz land game center shopping mall or fast food restaurant and every day v give them enough money so they can buy whatever they want. But they don't allow kidz to go outside alone . They can go only with parents or relatives.

One of thing i noted in his kidz they get quickly free with others. others are like a his/her parents when meet their neighbour or a person whom they r talking etc. This could be reason k they asked money. But again the same question he raised ke how this idea came into mind of my kidz?