Re: Share Stories of Successful Fertility Treatments!
Update on our progress:
Tomorrow we’re going to a bigger city in Australia for my hubby’s biopsy. We live in a village of Australia and it’s going to cost us an arm and leg to get there, but we want a child more than anything and willing to pay. If they get any ‘swimmers’ it will be all worth it.
then it will be my turn to ovulate and all the rest.
Please pray for me that we do get something. It’s extremely emotional and my brain is all over the place. My MIL asked me before we knew who had the problem, that if it was me would I allow hubby to get remarried so that the family could continue? I said yes to her, that if it’s me i don’t want to ruin anyone’s dreams. But now that it’s not me and i desperatley want children, i kinda feel like taunting her. I know that’s wrong and i love my hubby, but i’m kinda at that point where any male who has children is looking attractive to me (which is totally wrong!). I’ve always heard of men leaving their wife if she’s unable to have children but what about the women that can have children but their hubby’s can’t. There is no support system in our culture. Even though my MIL knows that it’s not me, she doesn’t stop others when they taunt me and ask me why i don’t let my hubby go so that he can have a family. I don’t want to tell every tom, dick and harry that my hubby’s infertile cos then they’ll think he’s not a man.
Even my mum doesn’t help. she said if it was me the in-laws would’ve kicked me out a long time ago. This gets me thinking negative that Hubby is ruining my life and my dreams. So now i tend to stay away from my mum so she doesn’t feed me this negativity and now i have no support system other than this place.
I’m just having a rant and a debrief. please ignore
It’s a test of your patience from Allah. Have faith on Al Mighty He is the only one who can give you aulaad. Easier said than done but both of you need to be each others support . Insha Allah everything will work out ameen. May Allah bless you with a baby soon ameen.