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Rukhsati is on same date of nikha so no alag dawat...........:D
In Sindhi families, there is no separate dawat from girl's side. We only have Walima.. but due to mixing of communities, now girl's parents have to bear burden of that extra Dawat :(
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Hum un kanjoosoon say donstee nahi rakhtay jo bartan wapis na milay toh khana bheeja bund kar dain. 
Hajjis even gift jaye namaz to relatives
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But khwateen are very much particular about maintaining their dinner sets.. 
My Amma always kept on sending halwa, siwayyan, kheer to my friends’ families even to those who lost bartan.
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Hajjis even gift jaye namaz to relatives
Its good to share gifts like those, but problem started when people expect these things from those who can't afford and I knew some people who took loan for meeting such expectations.
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samjhdar khawateen do not send khana from bartan of complete sets because they know someone will forget to return it in time ow they will use it at their home and end up breaking it.
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that’s what disposable plastic/tupperware/dannon dahi ka dabba is for!!! when i send someone khanaa, i make sure to use a bowl/dish that is does not matter to me much…naa waapis aye to koi masla nahin 
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Even in Pakistan, some communities (like Memon) follow this Nikah at Masjid and Rukhasti at Shadi Haal. But there are limited number of people invited in Nikah and there is no khana for that, they only distribute small packets containing chuwaray, badaam, etc.
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Problem with Amma is that we have a big joint family and Amma even sent things to her dadihaal / Nanihaal and Abba’s Dadihaal / Nanihaal specially on occasions like Shab Baraat and Muharram.. Thats where shortage of bartan created problem and she had to utilise dinner sets.
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muqawwee bhai for unknown reasons i used to think that you are a memon
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Problem with Amma is that we have a big joint family and Amma even sent things to her dadihaal / Nanihaal and Abba's Dadihaal / Nanihaal specially on occasions like Shab Baraat and Muharram.. Thats where shortage of bartan created problem and she had to utilise dinner sets.
Ab baray khandan k masael toh bhughatna hee prain gay na. :S
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Ninja aap antaryami ho 
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really
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Yes, per kahani main twist hai. will let you know later 
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its ok bro....
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Ok there was a tradition in almost all communities of South Asia (especially Rajputs), not to drink water from daughter / sister's in-laws. What was the logic behind that?
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I had seen custom of MIL doing parda with SIL in andhra specially telangana
i am not confirm weather this tradition exists in hyderabad or not…
but rest of telangana i m confirm..i dont know root of this tradition…
this custom exists in muslim community…yes
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So there might be less saas-bahoo chik-chik in those areas. Good tradition to be followed universally :hehe:
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bhai mother-in-law and son-in-law ke beech parda hota hai.................:D
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I thought it sister in law while reading your post and while replying take it as DIL
But Parda between MIL and Son-in-Law is not required as per Islamic rules IMO.