my mum tried to put me in salwaar kameez when i was a kid but i was a bit of a tomboy and preferred western wear, since then its stuck. but after marrying, im more into salwaar kameez, and have become aware of how feminine and pretty salwar kameezay are, still i only wear them for eid or weddings, though i do think that they would suffice for going out to dinner or nice dos too, cos salwar kameezay can be more glam than some posh western wear. im also a trainers gal, and trainers do NOT go with salwar kameez lol, so yup, western wear most of the time.
It was the opposite for me, my dad used to hate desi clothes so as a kid I never wore desi clothes. It was always Western clothes on eids, birthdays, weddings ( even in Pak). Now the situation is I wear Desi clothes on eid and weddings.