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Do you have any brothers? I suggest you ask them to kick the hell out of him! :)
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You forgot one thing in the plot, the in laws were described but then totally forgotten in rest of the story.
Next time dont make this mistake.
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I don't understand why you are saying that about the in laws? They were the worst in laws ever and are happy about the breakdown of the marriage!
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You go girl!!! Your a trooper!!!
Thank you everyone. I have decided to leave him once and for all. The effect this has all had on me psychologically is indescribable. The credit cards were in his name but i stupidly took a loan out to pay them off! I'm hoping I will have enough evidence against him in court to get the house. He is so heartless he has told me to just deal with what he has done and says he will move on with or without me.
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Awwww thank you! I know it might sound like I've been an emotional wreck and crying non stop, but I picked myself up and decided 2011 was going to be MY year. I've made lots of new friends and built on the old relationships I had with loved ones. I've been going out on the weekends and enjoying myself. I've even been travelling by myself and have three holidays this year! I've just been trying to pick up the pieces of my life and put them back together again. He is trying to hold me back because he doesn't want to me to be successful. Someone asked me what my profession was, I am a high school teacher. I love my jobs and the kids love me. I have a HUGE list of things I want to do and make up for all the time he has wasted of mine. I'm just trying to be happy and make everyone happy around me, therefore creating and passing on positive vibes x
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iA’ ALLAH only has the best in-store for your future.
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Maybe he needs some rehab, get him referred to a drug counselor or something.
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Wish you all the best jessi!. Allah has given you chance to get out of this azmaish.
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good luck with all you do in the future may Allah help you to live a happier life...
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jassi22 i feel so much for you.... i have seen someone in exactly the same situation :(
i cant beleive how it happens.... really
may Allah Tallah gives you lotsss of happiness amin
i want just about to study and ur post made me so sad :( Allah behtar karein amin
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Jassi, stay strong. You will be fine and 2011 WILL be your year.
Stay focused and dont lose sight of the bigger picture.
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^what's the bigger picture?
jassi, hope you're a lot happier from now on and God looks out for you
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Thanks guys, I'm really feeling the love lol. Especially after being neglected and rejected for so long! He has ruined six years of my life and I will not allow him to ruin anymore. Life is a precious gift from God and NO ONE has the right to destroy your life. Joh rab kardah hai, teekh hi kardha hai whether we realise it or not and as my mum said aaj assi rondeh ah, kal woh rowengeh. x
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inshaALLAH you will do great. :)