My wedding anniversary is about to come in a couple of weeks. Although it will complete mashAllah 4 years of my marriage but after my very first anniversary, this will going to be the second anniversary that we will celebrate together so I am kind of excited
There is something though, I am confused about
On this weekend or lets say from Friday evening, we are going to have a Friends meetup party. You say a big get together. A couple of couples are coming to stay over and I am sure, I am going to have a very excited and joyous weekend. Basically they live far away and thatâs why will have a stay over because its not easy travelling long distances on weekly basis.
My Anniversary doesnât comes the same day but will be in the end of this month. I know if I choose to celebrate it the same day it falls on, there will be only two of us. Therefore, I was planning if I could celebrate it a bit earlier when a lot of friends are here, i-e, this weekend.
Confusion is, would celebrating it earlier not lose its value?? because of course, I have plans for the same day celebration too which involves only two of us?? Do you think, I should have it celebrated this weekend or I should wait for the right date to come..and celebrate it the actual day so that the fresh feeling remains there??
Well I am kind of excited and I know I will enjoy the celebration with friends, I am just confused if the naya-pan of celebrating it on the actual day can loose its importance.. do u think I feel right? :(
People will set their birthday party at an earlier or later date if it falls on a day that's inconvenient for people. It doesn't have an impact on their life or their age. If spending a couple of your anniversaries apart from your husband did not hurt your marriage (which is a much bigger deal) then how will celebrating it earlier affect it?
The more important question to consider is whether your husband would enjoy the company of others or prefer privacy. Talk to him about it. Some people will avoid turning it into a party because they don't want the guests to feel like they should have brought a gift. And even if you don't inform the guests about your anniversary earlier and don't expect gifts, some of them still might feel they have to out of a formality. So u can factor this point in as well.
If it were me, I'd prefer privacy as opposed to a celebration with friends and family.
ermmâŚyeah he will enjoy it with friends I am sure, but I canât discuss it with him, because I was thinking, if I plan to celebrate it with everyone then I will surprise him⌠it will be his surprise⌠because out of these days, he will be at work one dayâŚand there I can plan to decorate the room/ buying cake/ and arranging some flowers⌠yeah⌠I am also bit confuse, shall I tell everyone that weâll celebrate a party or let it be a surprise for everyone too!!
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yeah thats what I am thinking⌠I believe Sunday would be the right day to celebrate⌠but how will I decorate the dining area when he is at home? any ideas??
Celebrate with friends early and then as jeea said on the day just you two....
have some flowers and candles along with a cake for him. It'll look nice :)
are you two imran khan fans? if so, maybe a PTI themed anniversary celebration would be fun.. waleekdhkb and debashishangel can help plan the decor and meenu.
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GoldenAsif can Umpire to make sure no one eats more than one slice of cake 
