Look this is obviously a potentially very long debate that will take time, and both of us will learn somethings
I have not tried to be rude or resort to personal attacks. You have said certain things first, like remark on shirk, meaning YOU MUSHRIKS, and the like. (I did not mean it the way you understood. I think while typing, it is difficult to express yourself and be understood because the person reading on the other side only read words and cannot see the body language or hear the tone. So you misunderstood my post and assumed them to be insults. I did not mean it like that even though when you said the visitors of shrines talk to the souls of the dead, that actually had angered me alot… Because it has been said in the quran that once dead, the souls depart the earth to live in another level of sky. But still, I did not mean to insult.) these are all worse then personal attacks in the religion. This builds an atmosphere of telling truth, so for example when you step into kufr with a view that you put forward i am entitled to point this out. I am also entitled to say the truth about the najdiyyah movement at all times, especially when they are saying we are hindus, and you are repeating this. The ahlus Sunnah are not here to be your punchbag, I too pack a punch or two. (I do not understand the remaining part of your post as I am not even religious. Recently started praying so I have no clue what wahabis or others tell you. Whatever I said was based on your post. And FYI, I did not know that salafi is another term for wahabi. I found that the other day when googled for wahabi to know what wahabism is because you claimed that it is HORN OF SATAN.)
If you want things explained very very nicely then you will have to ask in a very very simple manner yourself. Ask and telling are different for example. If it helps YOU ARE MY SISTER. (Hehe okay thanks. But I just mean SIMPLE, not nice… Just very simple so that all kinds of readers can understand. Let’s simplify religion for all, not complicate it.)
As for not understanding me, then I am sorry about that. I can not help you unless you quote me a little at a time. For example to say explain post x to me. It could possibly take me my whole life to explain so many different points. Its also possible [very possible] that i do not know in the detail that might your appetite for knowledge might demand (Well yes, this time, I have put my comments after every line you typed which I did not understand. And that’s okay. I also apologize for misunderstanding.)
The initial suggested subject [whom the sufi gets knowledge from] is no as longer relevant, since you touched upon shirk. See before that you had not mentioned this and other things and after you did i was not willing to let you have these free pops at Ahlus Sunnah or Islam. So the subject changes but I am still here. (That arose from your comment about visitors of the chrines talking to the soul of the dead… which is not even possible when the souls depart, they;re not allowed to be on earth.)
Take your time sister, no rush. Days/weeks/months no problem. Even if i do not reply no problem, just think about the correct position to have. its a step in the right direction for all of us (Yes, I agree. If goes towards a positive direction, it will teach us all alot. And right now am going for dinner so later.)
You are welcome to respond how you like, but some ways are better at concentrating on a particular aspect, some ways are better for conversation, bouncing ideas
btw to do Takfir is to call them Kaffir [disbeliever]*** (Oh… okay… I’ll go back to read your post again so it’ll make more sense. Catch ya later.)***