question about wedding..
aur woh yeh hai ke.. how many of your families have this rasam ke pehley din ke (baraat) ke aprey larkey waley pehnaye larkey ko bhi aur larki ko bhi?
matlab ke sherwani will cum from the bridal’s side to the guy and then on walima girls susral wale dress them up?
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yep for my aunts wedding her MIL gave her the clothes although that was their tradition, in our tradition we dont but cos it's the in-lawa tradition we did get the groom a suit which I think he wore on the wedding
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oo so that means that you didnt provide the serwani.. i mean yeh suit we have to give on the walima day in our family we dont either but my sis in laws have this rasam of doing it
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i think we have this rasam 
barat from the girl’s and the walima outfits come from the guy
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you mean on baraat day the girls side dress them both?
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yeah…the girl definitely dresses from home…her clothes, jewellery, shoes, makeup, you name it, it’s from her own pocket. i think for the groom’s stuff we just give them the money, and you know how colors etc have to be coordinated too, so he goes out and gets the sherwani to his configuration, and the like pagri and the shoes we send them…or something like that depending on the situation. for joota chupai its good cuz then you can buy shoes that don’t fit 
the walima the girl comes dressed from her susral. if there is something that needs to be bought before hand, like shoes, the groom’s side pays for it.
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I thinks it different for every family, some do and some dont. I ve even heard of girls side giving the grooms side the mehndi outfit- we didnt do this ether but there was a rasam which the grooms mother did insist on and thet was giving the grooms side food when it was the girls rukhsati- some strange tradition???
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I have a question..
The dress, jewelry, shoes, makeup etc. are taken care of by the grooms side on valima day? and for the wedding day the girls side takes care of everything?
is that a tradition?
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we do have this rasam ....
For Girl:waliima outfit and jewellery is from their inlaws...
For Boy:Wallima Suit is from girl's side
Recently my cousin had a nikkha,as the same rasam was applied
like my Phupo has given a suit to groom which was from Next ...and the guy's family did so...and the dress was from HSY....overall it's a nice thing like no bunden on a family....
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I have a question.. The dress, jewelry, shoes, makeup etc. are taken care of by the grooms side on valima day? and for the wedding day the girls side takes care of everything? is that a tradition?
Yeah QueenBee!! On wallima grooms family are taken care of everything .......(Brides makeup.dress .jewellery)....
And on barat... brides's family has to do it .....
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you mean on baraat day the girls side dress them both?
No,only their own girl.....
and then they are responsible of take care of groom's clothes on wallima.........
Yaar its a kind of given take (LOL):D
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Um usually the bride’s family is responsible for only HER stuff on the wedding day and the guy wears wat he wants ( meaning he pays for it)… on the valima its a switch-off, where the bride and groom are each dressed by their susral…mehndi ka jora comes from the guys’ side (they pay for it , pick out design :(, etc)..I’ve heard of girls who get their own outfits, and they just pay for it…lucky gits 
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chanel112 u have ur phophu duaghter's dress pictures which is made by HSY
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yes milli i do have lakin i m restricted to post it......:(,
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*humare mein ladke wale walima ka bridal dress dete hain aur ladke ko ladki wale walime ka dress dete hai *
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Different in our family....
The guy is expected to dress the girl for both shaadi and valima and the girl's family is expected to dress the groom.
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Traditionally:
In our family, the groom's side gives clothes for both days to the bride and vice versa.
I've heard that in Punjab, the groom's side selects the clothes for the valima and the bride's side selects the clothes for the wedding.
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I thinks it different for every family, some do and some dont. I ve even heard of girls side giving the grooms side the mehndi outfit- we didnt do this ether but there was a rasam which the grooms mother did insist on and thet was giving the grooms side food when it was the girls rukhsati- some strange tradition???
yah i also have heard about the mehndi one.. but usually the groom;s side give the mehndi outfit to the girl lol leking kafhi log larkey ko bhi mehndi ka outfit dehde hain
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in our family in my nanyal and dadyal both traditions are different.
in my nanyal the bride wear the dress from their side not from grooms side. and on walima she wears the dress from susral. mehndi suit is also from bride's side for the bride. and for groom the barat dress is from their side and walima from girl side. but its not like that we are restricted to follow that tradition.
in my dadyal both the brides dresses are from inlaws and for groom girls side gave dress for valima only i think but in my chacha wedding both my chachi and chacha dresses are from our side for both days.
(larki waloon ki chalaki :) they are relatives :D) anyways but now when my cousins are getting married from dadyal side cauz they are urdu speaking barat dress is from inlaws for bride and for groom from brides side. and same for walima the girl wear from her moms side and groom also from their side.
and in my nanyal its opposite. for barat its apna apna and for walima its from inlaws.
see how confusing it is.:D
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ya i couldnt even follow it ;) ^