shaadi Ka Fidah?

Kisko hai mian ko yah Biwi ko?

Discuss.. serious replies only.

in english please

who benefits from a marriage more, wife or hubby?

I would say both, but if I have to choose from one then I'd say Men!

well I would say both benefit.....sorry for the boring answer

hmm discuss..why doyou guys feel the way you do?
and are you married?

the kids!

haha

I'm married and I think Saadia is too.

I am nikkahafied :)

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*Originally posted by ~MuNiYa~: *
hmm discuss..why doyou guys feel the way you do?
and are you married?
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Muniya wouldn't this question be better off answered by MARRIED folks??

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*Originally posted by SaadiaB: *
I am nikkahafied :)
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Now who made up this word "Nikkahafied"? Pakistanis?

No actually I'd like to hear from the unmarried people as well so that I can compare and contrast =)

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*Originally posted by Rumii: *

Now who made up this word "Nikkahafied"? Pakistanis?
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Ya ! afterall its a pakistani board and I've seen it around, means basically I have the Nikkah done but we are not living together... yet.

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*Originally posted by SaadiaB: *

Ya ! afterall its a pakistani board and I've seen it around, means basically I have the Nikkah done but we are not living together... yet.
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I know what it means, I just never heard the word before.

Speaking as a bachelor, both benefit from it.
I would think that there is comfort and security with a partner.

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*Originally posted by CocoNut: *
Speaking as a bachelor, both benefit from it.
I would think that there is comfort and security with a partner.
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only if that partner is the right one, correct?

Do people marry to get benefits?

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*Originally posted by Munni: *
Do people marry to get benefits?
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heck yeah, ever heard of marrying someone for their GREEN CARD??

^ :disgust:

not exactly the direction I was hoping this thread would go. :slight_smile:

I know, sorry :smiley: