I think the problem is mothers bringing up their sons to be mama’s boys who can’t think for themselves and are instead lazy, useless enough and taught to shove down all responsibility of taking care of the parents down the throat of the bahu instead of THEIR OWN CHILDREN. So they poison their son’s mind in such a way that as soon as a girl demands her own house (under our religion) she’ll get labelled with ridiculous labels.
Your enlightful second paragraph:
If the same mothers taught the sons exactly how to adapt to married life and take in consideration of the fact that his wife has left ALL HER previous life behind to move in with him, and maybe if the sons are taught that maybe, just maybe, striking a balance between the relationships and not expecting his wifey to do everything for his ama aba, then maybe it would all work out.
^ Tongue in cheek more or less. As I said before both are fine, its what suits each family should work FOR THEM.
But.
See how easy it is to reverse and replace the word ‘girl’ with ‘boy’ in the not-so-clever and vastly generalised frankly drivel (sorry I tried to find a politer word) you’ve written above? :halo: