Re: sh!T hit fan again....
and if they are people you are giving shelter to and paying to "help out", then im sure** this isn't the sort of "help" your halal money is paying for**
^ however, implicit in your post wad that giving shelter somehow gives the employer a moral high ground.
By giving shelter I mean to imply, they are there 24/7 and therefore their attitudes will effect the household since if there is an attitude, it is around all the time.
And I am sure *you don't open your doors to trouble or people who will cause trouble in your family. *
Question: are you paying someone to help in the house and better the atmosphere, or paying someone to come and cause ill feelings among your loved ones and yell at them?
Kaamwali is there for her services, she is being paid for them (not a slave).
Those services don't include her yelling at the household.** If you are demanding ethics from Nadz, let's be fair and expect some respect, some basic human respect, from people around her as well. **Nadz said she wasn't rude. I believe her.
Leaving kaamwalis aside, since it is difficult for you to understand what I mean by "shelter" and you misinterpret it as high grounds and arrogance,** I am sure none of us would appreciate having "house guests" who create such an atmosphere.** Even they are people we provide "shelter" to for a while.
For eg, out of town guests. Hosts have certain rights, and so do guests. Hosts need to show guests hospitality, and guests (good houseguests) try not to burden their hosts too much and everyone is happy.
Similarly, not only is halal money being dished out to kaam wali (as per whatever agreement) in order to help out in the home, *but also an invitation has been ensued to stay within the family home.*I am sure this is free. And her food and clothing is free as well. I am not begruding her that, that is how household servants are retained in Pakistan.
But there is a concept of namak halali and namak haraaami.
Unspoken agreement, you get treated with respect and you treat every household member with respect.
Simple.
