so as ive said before, the kaamwali is rude and batameez to me. she screamed at me the other day when told to go get shopping, she was rude agian the next day, and s on. she is always rude or makes a huge face whenever told to do something. she will do her job but with alot of batameezi. so i had enough and told my husband. she
he then asked her, she went nuts and was aruguing with him and just dragging the whole matter answering him back and being rude to him too, so he raised his voice and aruged back. his parents told him to be quiet and generally took her side and his mum had a little go at me and him , and told us off instead!, the kaamwali ran out crying hysterically…my mil was all soothing her and calming her down…she ran past me and said khuda tumse badla layga…CAN YOU BE;LIEVE THAT…???
anyway his parents generally took her side and i feel let down again. i thought that if husband said something it may be different bu no…i think thye will blame me for this again/
lol.yes. well it involved her too. so its me against kaamwali and mil.
you seem to be soooo cooool so it's hard for me to understand why you have a miserable time with your MIL and Kaamwaali? chill Nadz...you will be gone in March...enjoy your stay! :)
so doesnt anyone see the batameezi she did. am i wrong in what i did. should i have ignored her and just smiled and carried on. no one should have someone being rude to them for no reason esp no kaamwali.
Are you and your hubby paying her or is your MIL paying her? Her allegiance would be to the one whose paying her.. kind of like a personal assistant if you will. I don't expect my PA to take sh*t from anyone else except me. This includes my parents, sister, brother and bf.
The kaamwalis are hard to find in pak and maybe thats why your mil takes her side or maybe your mil is just reacting against you and your husband now that you guys are finally moving away
so as ive said before, the kaamwali is rude and batameez to me. she screamed at me the other day when told to go get shopping,
and as we've said before......don't deal with her.
let your MIL do it.
why did you engage with her?
why did you have to tell her to go and get shopping?
no one should have someone being rude to them for no reason esp no kaamwali.
so doesnt anyone see the batameezi she did. am i wrong in what i did. should i have ignored her and just smiled and carried on. no one should have someone being rude to them for no reason esp no kaamwali.
Why is this? Are kaamwali's sub-human or something?
and as we've said before......don't deal with her.
let your MIL do it.
why did you engage with her?
why did you have to tell her to go and get shopping?
I've been wondering about that too. It's like jaan booj kai panga laina.
