Re: sh!T hit fan again…
true that. but sometimes people fall very categorically within a particular stereotype. I have seen the sort Nadz has to deal with in real life. These people (Nadz type kaamwali) take utter advantage of the place they are at and the people they work for.
you hire household “help”. You pay halal money to them and help them in all their needs. in case of long term servants, ANY issue, (death marriage birth floods wrecking their homes) the employers dish out openly and freely. I know this for a fact. That is by no means treating someone like a slave.
but even if you don’t do that, even if you just pay them to help out in the house and don’t give them any other benefits as agreed upon when they come to work for you, it is** not asking for a lot that they don’t mess up the environment of the household **by screaming and yelling at any member of the house, or anyone within that house. nor is it unreasonable to expect that the house not be subjected to such drama from their end at least. there are polite ways to decline things. if nadz is saying she spoke politely, then the kaamwali should have politely refused if she didnt want to. no need to yell, **especially if nadz is saying she didn’t act rude herself (totally giving OP benefit of doubt here)
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whether or not you are a kaamwali or a resident of a house or anything, none of that has any basis in this.
Nadz basically said kaamwali is super rude.
Nadz husband got yelled at.
this is atrocious behavior.
NOONE has a right to do that.
and if they are people you are giving shelter to and paying to “help out”, then im sure** this isn’t the sort of “help” your halal money is paying for**