Not all porn shows women in that 'meat market' light, there are genres that cater specifically to women and couples (ie the intention is that a wife would not feel uncomfortable watching with hubby) with storylines etc., the woman being shown is in control and enjoying herself rather than being treated only as a 'sex object' or her sole role being only to satisfy the male(s) as is obviously the case with a lot of porn..
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I must say if someone has to watch porn to learn to be intimate ............then it is time for them to go back to kindergarten again....or potty train again.
Many many women enjoy giving more, than taking the pleasure. They are just happy to please!
There has been a study which showed vast majority of women were quite happy with just the intimacy and something more, without getting to the point of climax.
Not to reduce the importance of 'climax' but a lot of women never had the 'climax' in reality and still quite happy and satisfied.