Re: Sexting before Nikkah
Girls are really stupid for sexting/phone sex/skype sex/sending sexy or nude photos during ristha process..it’s so much easier to do these days with technology from cell phones to emails to whatsapp to skype..those guys, who were basically strangers to you just a few weeks ago, are going to use you for their pleasure and likely ditch you because they’ll think you’ve done this with other guys. Dont fall for the temptation. No guy wants a girl that has been around nor do they want someone else’s sloppy seconds. And in the end it will come back to hurt you more than him, not worth the pleasure or the risk for a girl IMO. The reality is girls get judged for being sexual by guys when it comes time for marriage and it will be held against them–this is done in every society and every religion, not specific to muslim guys, muslims guys are just less forgiving about sexual past of a girl. Why risk it without at the very least a serious commitment (i.e. engagement or nikkah). Plus things get saved and recorded so easily these days that you’re risking hurting your future reputation and even future marriage. For girls who just reassure themselves thinking their husband won’t ever find out, don’t be so sure, if you hide these things and they get exposed after marriage, it’ll likely impact your marriage due to the loss of trust or because of whatever other thoughts that start coming into your husbands mind, which will most likely come up with things that were much worse than reality…is it really worth all that risk? And it’s so easy to save and record chats, pictures, emails and skype video sessions, and guys do in fact save and record things all the time while engaging in this behavior and girls don’t even know it..be smarter girls, don’t let guys use you regardless of how hard they try to sext with you..wait for engagement at very least
And if you’re going to engage in this behavior before marriage then stick with the guy and marry him, don’t make issues after doing all this with the guy and then say “oh he’s not right”..so ridiculous
annddd a 1 annddd 2 annndd a 3.. now deeeeeppp breathing. There we go.. doesn’t that feel better?
Don’t get your Bp all high. I’m pretty sure OP is a troll. He didn’t understand in the first thread so he made another one. Stop feeding him everybody. This is just madness.
lol.