Re: Sexting before Nikkah
Why wait a few weeks? You know not everyone is comfortable just jumping into bed on their marriage night. Some people like to get used to the physical proximity of their spouse which didn’t happen before marriage. You do it when you’re comfortable. What’s wrong with that? You’ve got the rest of your lives for physical intimacy and you know its not actually the be all and end all of marriage. Some girls might not want to do anything intimate the first week of marriage even some guys might not. There’s a lot going on. Most people will move to a new place, maybe a different city. They will be adjusting yo not just their new spouse but their in laws too in some cases. Not to mention the parade of guests who come to see the new bride. Plus the bride might be feeling homesick. You obviously haven’t thought about the emotional upheaval some people go through. And there’s something called restraint you know. If its a Q&A then you can keep it a Q&A. Good grief you make it sound like the only reason people get married is for satisfying their urges. Hello? That’s only ONE aspect. If you only look at that as being important your marriage won’t last.
You make it seem like getting married is like getting a Nobel Peace prize. Obviously people get married to procreate hence the “Suhaag Raat”. It is expected that you get intimate on the very first day. I think waiting weeks is a more liberal viewpoint and being able to say “Oh I’m so emotionally unstable now, give me few weeks”. Then don’t get married.