Sex

[Zalim_Wadera]

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@Zabardast

To brush off societal pressure is an art form…I have learned it the hard way…paid heavy prices…and am on my way on crushing societal pressures at all costs…hmmmmmmm

PS: I can sum up the whole universe in 2 letters…F Off…

Look, someone is not feeling well to ward off these BSs and I feel like taking up this responsibility for the time being. That summing up is like…kameene-pan se baaz aao

[Zalim_Wadera]

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@PyariCgudia

Zalim Wadera: Impossible. Abstinence is your only 100% surety.

Do not say impossible. The act during the first four days (if not five) after periods is surely safe, 100%.

[KUKAR_KHAN]

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lol you guys are so funny, its not taboo its HARAM.

I personally have done more than i should have before marriage but I am gonna marry the guy and its not like I go around saying its ok for other poeple to do. Whats wrong is wrong, doesnt matter who does it.

[Puchi_Kuchi]

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It's not 'okay' and it's not 'normal' because as MUSLIMS we have to realise that fornication is an extreme sin. Just because the western media promotes sex in every aspect people are becoming desensitized to it and take it too casually. Even for me being born and brought up in the west, when I hear a muslim casually speakin about their sexual endevours it angers and offends me. It's not about being a prude, it's about sticking to what is correct and Halal.

[ImranQ]

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@Lajawab

Why do it for free? If you are gonna do it at least make some money off it…

hhmmmmm.. u are too harsh lajawab

being on bed with one perticular guy is different than with strangers!!!

when a girl fell for a guy and share bed with him its because of love but prostitutes share for money or for lust… there is a big difference :halo:

remember u cannot convince anyone by taunting etc… u hve to be patient and polite and ofcourse sensible … sorry, but u acted like a stupid

[picoico]

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@ImranQ

being on bed with one perticular guy is different than with strangers!!!

Not always. Ever here of one night stands?

If sex aint no biggie, then who cares whom you do it with…no? What’s all this nonsense about love vs money?

Slippery slope folks…

[ImranQ]

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^

Not always. Ever here of one night stands?
exactly, thats the point. she didn't sleep with a stranger but with one she loves or atleast knows for sometime..... one night stand is what sluts do...

What's all this nonsense about love vs money?
one don't feel that bad when its done under the banner of love ............ but for money its more guilty

so u think sex is just sex........ even after marriage sex is just sex or part of love??

[Zabardast]

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@Zalim Wadera

Look, someone is not feeling well to ward off these BSs and I feel like taking up this responsibility for the time being. That summing up is like…kameene-pan se baaz aao

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa…aaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii…yeeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyyyy…

Cheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrr…uppppppppppppppaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Likaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa…sex machinaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Cheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrr…uppppppppppppaaaaaaaaa

Ummmmmmmmmmm…aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiinnn…aaaaaaaaiiiinnnnn

Sex…machinaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa…

[picoico]

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@ImranQ

exactly, thats the point. she didn’t sleep with a stranger but with one she loves or atleast knows for sometime… one night stand is what sluts do…

Some people would say sex before marriage is what “sluts” would do…where do we draw the line?

one don’t feel that bad when its done under the banner of love … but for money its more guilty

For some. Not for others. For those who don’t feel guilty, you may think they have a few screws loose. Some of us just raise the bar higher and think the same way even for those people who sleep around with people they’ve known for a while.

[PyariCgudia]

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Really incredible. Not too long ago there was a thread where not just one, but like 2 or 3 guys admitted to fornicating, and no one gave them a lecture, nor did anyone really talk about the virtues of virginity or the sluttiness of sleeping around.

I wonder if humus was a guy, would this thread be 7 pages long and would the replies be the same?

[_Lahore_Ka_Cheetah]

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I can't wait till I get married.

[system]

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Can this forum be a vehicle for social change in Pakistan? NO
Is someone trying to make a point? *Probably! *

[Zalim_Wadera]

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@PyariCgudia

Really incredible. Not too long ago there was a thread where not just one, but like 2 or 3 guys admitted to fornicating, and no one gave them a lecture, nor did anyone really talk about the virtues of virginity or the sluttiness of sleeping around.

I wonder if humus was a guy, would this thread be 7 pages long and would the replies be the same?

I do not complaint against the discrimination without any reason. This is a gender-biased forum and interestingly its in favour of females.

[ImranQ]

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lemme introduce a contrary theory to this thread!!

as opposed to what u feel… somehow girls are more sincere & devoted to their lovers / hubbies than usually guys are, Agree??

Most Girls, when in love goes into a unique … kinda weird state of mind … and wht is that?? the feeling is somethng like “by loving u, I hve surrendered my soul to you, and my body is of no importance anymore … i am all yours now”

u can of course disagree but i have seen such behaviours in the past.

PS: I prefer to go with your threory Lastnightness but who knows whats gonna happen tomorrow!

@lastknightess

Look we all knwo what religion says…and we all know that in our day and age sex is a mere activity like playing tennis or watchin a movie..etc

The only thing that stops me from partaking in it is the fact that on the day I consummate my marriage will I be able to look my husband in the eye and tell him that he has every part of me…that he has something that no one else will evr have or ever did.

If I do sleep with another man before marriage I wouldn’t be true to that vow of complete devotion..I wouldn’t be true to to the fact that every bit of me belongs to him and him alone…I wouldn’t be able to look him in the eye when he touched me knowing that someone else had done the same.

But that’s just me.

[Pinstripe_Danda]

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LK, what happens if you marry someone, you give them your preserved fruit and can’t find the grape with their knife when they should have had a spork. You might find yourself married, sexually unsatisfied with little or no recourse. (I can tell you about the recourse but your virgin eyes )

[lastknightess]

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LOL PD..yeah that’s my worst nightmare…but I suppose I can live unsatisfied if I love him enough…

Then again…not like we won’t have a not penetrating “preview” before the wedding :halo:

[shweetdreamz]

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@lastknightess

LOL PD..yeah that’s my worst nightmare…but I suppose I can live unsatisfied if I love him enough…

its women like you that…arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

[Sara516]

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Uhm, if u both love each other wudn’t u try ur hardest to sexually satisfy one another? i mean obviously the attraction and chemistry is there, else u wudnt be marryin the guy wud u?

[lastknightess]

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Sara just love and good intentions dont translate into a good "performance" ...

shweet dreams...whaaat?

[Pinstripe_Danda]

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^ it's mechanics, chemistry, physicality....anything remiss can cause consternation...