Re: Sex
PyariCgudia:
Its not the actual sex that is a problem in itself. At least not for me. I find the trouble comes in when a little present comes along with it, presenting a female with the choice of either carrying it to term for 9 months, or aborting it.
Desis are shagging all the time before marriage. That, to me, is not offensive. But it is offensive when they decide to abort the baby because of their own irresponsibility.
Because I dont want to take that risk, I refuse to have premarital sex.
I had a conversation with two ladies earlier today (not muslim, but whatever). One said that she’s getting a pregnancy test done, because she thinks she’s pregnant, but she hopes she isn’t, and if she is, she’ll probably get an abortion done. The other said that she has a 6 year old son, and she wishes she had aborted him, because she had him too early and he made life tough for her.
Good grief. If you can’t handle the consequences, then don’t shag!
Thats news to me. I for myselff have always felt you should be deadly against the real act done without marriage. In the meanwhile, aap seerhee se gir to naheen gayeen hain na?