Re: Sex Education & Muslim Youth
Psyah, please stop playing the victim and pretenting I am coming up with "twisted accustations". As a recap, this is what has been posted:
What we need to do is teach that it is disgusting and sinful
*I've grown up with the idea that sex is disgusting (which is right) *
Ofcourse sex is disgusting
Okay sex is a natural thing but it doesn't mean that its not disgusting and filthy.
*At the very first stage (probably for under 7's) you teach them that sex is something filthy *
Well it is not a lie as sex is disgusting in a manner(uncleanliness) so I don't think that it is wrong to tell them its filthy.
If you or hareem mispoke, then just say it. One does not repeatedly write "sex is disgusting" in retaliation. Either you wrote it or didn't. I didn't make it up. So stop the accusations that I am twisting things. The posts are here for all to read.
Peace Seminole
You know what my wife has talked me round. It is I who needs to apologise. I will conform with her even more now ... The act of sex though pleasurable is or animalistic need, it is made as an enjoyment for us but at the same time pure beings are far removed from this activity. Read up about the companions in paradise.
Also since certain analogies have raised a few eyebrows lets reuse them regardless ...
Going for a number 2 i.e. solids ... That is a pleasureable act as well to get rid of that weight and it is relief, but we do not want to be seen while we are doing it not would we like to see someone doing it. It is smelly and the act it generally disgusting.
Same for the wee
Try looking through the eyes of a child and to him or her the act of sex must be the same as these ...
Okay let's quote a child from a film Spiderman 3 ... at the show spidey comes down to kiss the girl he saved earlier and the boy said no while adults were urging him to ... that boy was innocent he said "urgh" after Spidey kissed the girl .... this is how one must view this topic ... and access the natural state of the child not impose the adult state onto young children.
So even if I in this age do not view sex as disgusting ... to an innocent it is and also it is a thing not done by pure beings (angels) according to the Muslim belief.